"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What do you think about the girl-girl norm?

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fresh_to_death

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I guess this goes along with the whole worshiping women/pedestal mentality. I've tried to rally guys at parties so we could get the girls back on track, but have been met with resistance. Why in the world guys would prefer all the girls to dance and make out with girls is beyond my realm of reasoning. I've witness guys go ape**** and give girls money just to make out with another girl. Kind of counter-productive, dont you think?

You guys seem to be fighting the good fight,so what are your thoughts?

P.S. - I realize the girls are having a good time, but sometimes I think the guys egg this behavior on because they use it as a substitute for them actually moving in for the kill.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wolf116

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Yeah right! It's the hottest thing ever. Have you never wanted a threesome?
 
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I.A.F.Y.B.

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I don't pay hoes, hoes pay me!
 
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Bvbidd

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Girls practice making out with each other all the time. I have no idea why guys would pay money for it. I see it all the time for free.
 
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