what do you think about sex

[icallug]

is it just for play?

or

do you only want to share the moment with someone you love?

what does it mean to you? for me, yah it has to be with someone i love, it just shows trust and respect i guess.

 

[Canadianpimpology]

I want to lose my virginity to someone I love or at least care for a lot. Then again, I'm only 15, but I think after the first time...it'll be a lot easier cuz I won't care as much.

 

[drixsa]

fellas whats the BFD about your virginity?

i love it how for some ppl its so important about who they do it with the first time yet the 2nd-25th time it doesnt really matter

chances are that unless you do it with your wife it really doesnt matter who your first is.

first time really isnt that special or fun

 

[Cloud-uk]

mmm, guess it's your decision but the whole virginity just smacks of AFC inbred bull****. Its one of those things that you always hear people saying- "I want it to be special, with someone I love". **** that I say, if I fall in love with a girl that'll rock, and I'd like to keep it that way. If this whole love thing is as good as its cracked up to be then I want to **** that girl for the rest of my life, screw the others.

First time is crap, don't make a big deal of it.

 

[4nando]

human beings have one earthly purpose: to make MORE HUMAN BEINGS. That's why sex feels so good, because nature's rewarding us for propogating the species.

That's what I think about sex.

 

[ChasinReveries]

i think it's good

 

[kilgoretrout]

Sex... good! Condoms... BAD!

But seriously folks... I orginally thought I was going to take up any chance I had to get some... But you know... I finally got the chance with someone I really, REALLY hate... so you know... I told her to hit the road...

Any way... yeah, I think you should to have sex for the first time with someone you love (But seriously... I mean come on...).

 

[Saine]

I personally think sex is a term of love. In any case, you could do ONS. In my life I have so much sex I lost count. People say you could get disease easily, I had more sex than people could repeated "you could get it".

 

[BWSL2]

I was an interesting case. I would never "wait for the perfect someone" or whatever. I just wanted to ****. But, i got lucky, found a great girl who became a LTR, and tapped that ass. I didn't plan it, I just wanted some booty. But, she turned out to be hot and a great girl, and we're still together.

 

[Sax God]

Honestly, losing your virginity is not such a big deal. The way some people act about it is just setting you up for a big let down. Just hit it.

 

[tracy Jaks]

losing your v plates is a big deal unless, you arent really bothered about who its with.

Put uit this way you could be waintg for that special someone and one nite you could get wasted **** soe big fat minger hairy ***** and only remember bits of the nite, and BANG (excuse the pun) thats your virginity gone, and then youll be forever trying to get it back and make it special and it just wont work, so if your a virgin and want that special someone then do wait stay in control dont get 2 pissed otherwise al your principles will go out the window and youll have a nightmare of a first time.

 

[AC/DC]

I'm gonna lose it to someone special. Do you know why?

When I look back on my life, I don't want to think "I lost my virginity to some stupid *****". I want to think that I lost this special thing I had to someone who deserved it.

 

[drixsa]

what makes your 1st so much different from your 2nd?

BTW men never really lose their virginity.

i respect it when someone wants to wait until they are comfortable or when someone wants to wait until marrige.

but the right girl? how about the girl right now?

if you dont marry her and live happily ever after then whats the BIG FVCKIN DEAL>?

 

[tracy Jaks]

Originally posted by drixsa
what makes your 1st so much different from your 2nd?

BTW men never really lose their virginity.

physically they do not lose there virginity,this is true phsycologically however is a tyotally different story, Ask anyone whos had sex for first time how did it make you feel? yea the second timwe feels goosd also and the third and the fourth.

It gives you a ego a boost like nothing else!

ANd everyone dissing on people for witing is unfair, so what if if u didnt marry them, at least you tried to find that one special someone!

Which means more to most than a quik dip in a back alley somewhere.

 

[Dilly]

Originally posted by 4nando
human beings have one earthly purpose: to make MORE HUMAN BEINGS. That's why sex feels so good, because nature's rewarding us for propogating the species.

That's what I think about sex.

I like that. I give that statement a big thumbs UP! It is exactly true. Sex is good I say, anyhow!

 

[Hot Ice]

Originally posted by Bungo Pony in "Don Juan Bible vote of Non Confidence" by Nicholas Hill
I completely respect your choice on the matter of virginity. Don't lose it to some stupid-ass bimbo like I almost did. I'm proud that I turned down getting laid by some slut at the age of 17. I lost mine to someone I cared about, and I don't regret it one bit. Wear that fvcking V with pride. You'll have incredible control when you develope a relationship with a girl.

OK. This was exactly what I did. Got laid by some stupid-ass bimbo when I was 17.
hahaha!
I heard afterwards that she was stupid.
and that's what is hilarious. I didn't even know if she were a bimbo or stupid. We didn't talk verballyabout things much
But you know what.
I don't regret it a bit!

I had a great time and she had too.
And I'm proud I did it with a stupid-ass bimbo!

I've never had so-called chick thing as "meaningful sex".
(I think that's what you do when you love your partner)
Always had those casual sex partners.
You know, I've never had a real girlfriend.

Yeah, I think loving someone is great and having sex with a person you love could be really great.
But everywhere (INCLUDING HERE) people get the whole love thing wrong. I know because I was once like you... "I would never have sex with someone I don't love" -kind of ****.

I just have this warm feeling right now because I know I've reached the natural state of a human being in me. The only females I love and try to love are my mother (because she is a really sweet and caring person) and Mother Nature! I do not 'seek' for love. It's not natural human behaviour. You seek to be loved maybe. That's more resonable. That's what you most of you guys confuse. Love is something you feel (feeling is lame word for that, it's beyod it) towards someone even if you don't have anything back. Now most of you seek 'to be loved' that is just a combiantion of insecurity and lust. Hear me here. Love isn't something you go and serach from clubs at weekends. First comes a relationship, then comes love. Maybe. I can honestly say I love everything in this world. Even a thug that steals my money. I might be just like him in diffirent environment. He could be just like me in different environment. Love is confused with desire. I don't desire a bum even if I love his smelly ass! It's hard to explain if you don't get it. In the future I will find a woman I truly love. That's just matter of time. And I will find someone I commit to the rest of my life. But I don't go out and seek her now. It happens when it's suppose to happen. You all have time to find her.
This was dedicated to those guys who seek to be loved and think you should only have sex with a person you love.
Sex and love are totally two different things. They are not tied together.
Real love is something you do forever. No matter what happens. That's true love.
Most of people never love someone like that.
People are fooled to believe they love something.
It's just a strong emotional bond they think it's love.


Now, so you ask me about sex.
Ever noticed when you've masturbated while watching a porn flick that after you have your climax, all the excitement towards the porn is gone. It may even be disguisting to you afterwards. That's what chemistry do to you. The desire is just chemicals in your body that make you feel funny so you have to react somehow to it. It's nature's way to keep us reproducing. Do you think you would desire sex so much if your level of those chemicals was as low as after having a satisfaction? I bet it wouldn't be so much in your mind all the time.
What I'm saying here is that sexuality is a basic function of a human being. It's like desire to eat when you are hungry. It's so natural thing.

As I feel it's so natural thing to do, I don't feel that I should do it with someone I love. It's my natural urge of reproducing. I just want to keep my body thinking I'm like the largest gorilla in a group of monkeys. That I spread my genes everywhere. Now when society is in the way I can't really do it, but I still like it going around where I like spreading my seed everywhere (with a rubber ) I like the idea of sex as a natural thing to do and just expressing your sexuality.

Of course. Taking love (which has nothing to do with sex) in it would be a great experience. That's maybe the reason many people want a relationship. So they could be more emotionally tied with their sexual partner.




Have you always dreamed of being in bed and having sex with one person you love???

For me it's called masturbation.
Maybe you get more fulfilled if you learn to love yourself first so there is always a person you truly love in bed.
For me it's enough! And I bet it would be enough for you to have one person you truly love in bed too.


Happy Hunting
- Hot Ice

 

[drixsa]

thankyou hot ice that was beautiful

 

[tracy Jaks]

ok, youve changed my mind.

 

[Sax God]

Wow. I really enjoyed that post, Hot Ice.