MatureDJ
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What do you think about a woman discovering her fiancé really wanted her hot friend?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Love's Orphan
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What a great friend the guy has...
Welcome to reality sweetcheeks.
Almost every person that gets married out there, is married to someone who wasn't their first choice. (That is often true for women who end up marrying the beta provider instead of the Alpha player).
Just be glad you were at the right place at the right time because your man could have done better then you.
Almost every person that gets married out there, is married to someone who wasn't their first choice. (That is often true for women who end up marrying the beta provider instead of the Alpha player).
Just be glad you were at the right place at the right time because your man could have done better then you.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
So much for women claiming to appreciate and respect honesty from a man.
As I've always said, women claim to want truthfulness, but they NEVER want full disclosure.
As I've always said, women claim to want truthfulness, but they NEVER want full disclosure.
Who Dares Win
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Hey Rollo great work on your blog, I was wondering if in future you could analize in detail the relationship existing between two who are not engaged yet and are somehow too much for being friends and not enough for being lovers.Rollo Tomassi said:
The dynamics of that explained in the same way you explained many others would be really helpful to young lads who upgrade from betaness but still are not "in" in alphadom.
I tried ask about this to both competent friends and this board but it seems something uncommon yet.
ex: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=194929
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Most who claim they respect honesty can never take it when they do get it and that goes for men too. I always thought the world would be full of less bs and more people could get what they wanted out of life if folks would just be straight up and stop pretending. Let the chips fall where they do. Move on if you can't take it.Rollo Tomassi said:
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
Man, Prudie actually had a pretty good answer for this one. Amazing.
Question is, where is the gorgeous best friend now? Did her fiance actually pursue her and get shot down, or did he actually choose this girl? Hmmm.
Question is, where is the gorgeous best friend now? Did her fiance actually pursue her and get shot down, or did he actually choose this girl? Hmmm.
Whenever a woman asks me to be honest (implied or otherwise), I run this line through my head first:Rollo Tomassi said:
"Anything you say can and *will* be used against you. You have the rights to remain silence."
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.