What do you say when a girl says this?

[El Payaso]

What do you say when she says "I love you" for the first time?

 

[narcissist]

I make out with her for 3-4 mins. And then don't say it back.

 

[ChangePages]

Don't say it back.

It will make her more attractive to you because it will show her you're not easy, they love the challenge. They work harder for that.

 

[sazc]

This is exactly why I never say it first. I dont need to hear it, I can tell by the quality of the relationship and conversations & plans we are having/making for the future

 

[Serenity]

Depends on how I feel about her, if it's not true I won't say it back. If I do love her back I'll simply just say so. My responses in these matters are determined from what I feel, there's no objectively right or wrong answer.

I said it first to my girlfriend, but it was pretty damn obvious before any of us put words to it. She already knew and I knew she loved me, that's how far it must go before I say "I love you". It's just not true before that point so I won't say it, I'm emotionally honest like that.

 

[jebach123]

"I love me too."

 

[Trump]

What do you say when she says "I love you" for the first time?

Depends how old she is. If she is young, you can say it back. If she is older and has experience, be careful. There is something she wants from you and it isn't love.

Woman always have an agenda when they get older and wise to the world. They manipulate and tell you what you want to hear in order to extract the most resources out of you.

If you absolutely love her and cannot live without her, say it back. But definitely under no circumstances put it in text or writing. She will use it against you when it's most beneficial for her and most painful for you.

 

[AttackFormation]

What is love?

 

[Slash Dolo]

I had a girlfriend a few years back who said she loved me after about a year of dating. I didn't say it back then. A week or two later was our 1 year anniversary and I bought her a locket ($30, nothing crazy) with a piece of paper in it that said "I love you too." If you looked up infatuation in the dictionary, her expression after that would have been the example picture.

Was it cheesy? Yep. Was the sex amazing that night? Yes.

Do something similar, but wait a while after. And write it out before saying it. It's magic.

 

[RangerMIke]

"Come show me how much." or "Prove it."

 

[NickAdams713]

Say, "you're only human".

 

[Shift]

What is love?

baby don't hurt me

 

[kinosavyy]

"I love me too."

This is the best advice possible. If she insists, kiss her and move on to do something

 

[NSX-R]

"I love me too."

This or "everyone does" or something to show off my ****iness.

 

[CMNILS87]

You boop her on the nose and kiss her

 

[El Payaso]

What if she keeps saying it as the days go by and asks why you never say it back?

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

What if she keeps saying it as the days go by and asks why you never say it back?

Words cannot begin to describe how I feel about you. "Love" is such an overused word, and it's so vague, I don't think it means the same to me as it means to you. I don't know what it even means to me.

Do I care about you? Yes.

Do I feel fantastic when we're together? Yes.

Do I look forward to seeing you when we're apart? Yes.

Can I describe these feelings in that overused four letter word? I'm sorry but I cannot. What I feel for you cannot be contained in mere words that are thrown about without caution.

I want no limits on my feelings for you.

Please do not ask me to describe them with mere words, as that will threaten to constrain them, to box them in, to keep them in your pocket. I want my feelings for you to be as boundless as the universe, as bright as the sun, as vast as time itself.

I cannot, I WILL not, put mere words on those feelings that have been indescribable since the dawn of time.

Please do not ask this of me again.

 

[El Payaso]

Words cannot begin to describe how I feel about you. "Love" is such an overused word, and it's so vague, I don't think it means the same to me as it means to you. I don't know what it even means to me.

Do I care about you? Yes.

Do I feel fantastic when we're together? Yes.

Do I look forward to seeing you when we're apart? Yes.

Can I describe these feelings in that overused four letter word? I'm sorry but I cannot. What I feel for you cannot be contained in mere words that are thrown about without caution.

I want no limits on my feelings for you.

Please do not ask me to describe them with mere words, as that will threaten to constrain them, to box them in, to keep them in your pocket. I want my feelings for you to be as boundless as the universe, as bright as the sun, as vast as time itself.

I cannot, I WILL not, put mere words on those feelings that have been indescribable since the dawn of time.

Please do not ask this of me again.

Not bad.

 

[wifehunter]

I feel the same way, but let's not talk about it. Instead let's show each other. Because, anyone can say "I love you"

Talk is cheap.

 

[MrWood]

baby don't hurt me

no more