call m candy
Don Juan
i always say not too many.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
what do YOU say when a girl asks you, "How many women have you been with?"
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
neuromancer
Senior Don Juan
Not too many is my answer.
Jake Steed
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Yeah, "Not too many." is a great answer. You should always be vague. I've also said, "None of your business." with a very sly, playful, ****y grin. They eat that up.
The important thing for younger guys to do is if they haven't been with anyone, or less than 5 people is to lie. NEVER admit you're a virgin or haven't been with that many girls. She'll act like that's what she wants to hear, but if she finds out you don't have much experience, her respect for you will plummet through the floor. Women want a man who has more experience than them. So lie if you have to. She's probably lying to you about how many guys she's fvcked anyways.
Jake
The important thing for younger guys to do is if they haven't been with anyone, or less than 5 people is to lie. NEVER admit you're a virgin or haven't been with that many girls. She'll act like that's what she wants to hear, but if she finds out you don't have much experience, her respect for you will plummet through the floor. Women want a man who has more experience than them. So lie if you have to. She's probably lying to you about how many guys she's fvcked anyways.
Jake
BluesBrother2
Don Juan
how about, "I don't keep score"
trickynick
Master Don Juan
I usually just tell them, because the number is still pretty low at 5 girls. Do you guys think maybe I should stop answering that question?
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Look out for number one and don't step in number two!
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Look out for number one and don't step in number two!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
neuromancer
Senior Don Juan
I was kind of worried that "not too many" is a weak answer.
But saying "many" would make them scared to f**k you.
But saying "many" would make them scared to f**k you.
Take No Dirt
Master Don Juan
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Go to: http://128.121.203.63/sexpoll-women/ppoll.cgi
where it says 33% of females have had over 10 lovers in their lifetime. LOL!
neuromancer
Senior Don Juan
Bad answers:
"More than you can count"
"Hundreds"
"None"
"One"
"Two"
"Three"
"Thousands"
"Do you really want to know?"
"Including or excluding the strippers?"
I don't believe there's such a thing as a good answer.
"More than you can count"
"Hundreds"
"None"
"One"
"Two"
"Three"
"Thousands"
"Do you really want to know?"
"Including or excluding the strippers?"
I don't believe there's such a thing as a good answer.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
a select few.
Take No Dirt
Master Don Juan
I have been certified STD free.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
my ex fiancee used to ask me this question all the time ad I never Frucken told that biatch--if she only knew lol--ussually I say
"I dont think there is anything positive about this topic" that ussuallyt shuts them up--I would hate to tell anyone the truth
ok Im a ***** LOL--i tagged too many women not as many as some but I did lose count at some point--
A few of them i wish i would have just rubbed one out instead of sleeping with them
"I dont think there is anything positive about this topic" that ussuallyt shuts them up--I would hate to tell anyone the truth
ok Im a ***** LOL--i tagged too many women not as many as some but I did lose count at some point--
A few of them i wish i would have just rubbed one out instead of sleeping with them
If you are really worried how she would react to that kind of detail, you'll lose her anyway. If she really cares how many women you dated, she's not worth your time (unless you yourself are too insecure to be single). How many times have you heard the key to attract women is confidence? YOU define your fight.
IntermediateDonJuaner
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This is a good topic.
What if you have none ?
What will your response be?
What if you have none ?
What will your response be?
Take No Dirt
Master Don Juan
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If you're a virgin DJ (sounds almost like an oxymoron, doesn't it?), you must not admit it to the gal. Most girls (even virgin girls) want a dude with sexual experience. So, what to say when asked?
You could say "I've been around" and leave it at that. She won't know that you've told a white lie unless you two are lying in bed together and she can see your total lack of experience.
T Dog
Master Don Juan
Let's keep this on topic. Please start a new post for the 'virgin' response.
Thanks
P.S. PenKittens response is great! But what kind of name is that? Are you a guy or a girl? No offense of course.
Thanks
P.S. PenKittens response is great! But what kind of name is that? Are you a guy or a girl? No offense of course.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Deagleclaw
Master Don Juan
Hey Penkitten.
Guys who feel they have something to prove or are insecure usually inflate their numbers.
Women know that men are gunshy of chicks that have had a lot of partners because she's going to compare him to EVERY guy that's been inside her, which is why they lowball their number.
As far as REAL men go (not afc's who exagerate to seem like studs)... A lot of us, myself included, actually have NO idea how many women we've been with. When you get laid for the first time you start counting but then as it becomes less important you stop and if you get laid great if you don't... there's always beer.
Deagleclaw out
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Your friendly neighbourhood Irishman,
Guys who feel they have something to prove or are insecure usually inflate their numbers.
Women know that men are gunshy of chicks that have had a lot of partners because she's going to compare him to EVERY guy that's been inside her, which is why they lowball their number.
As far as REAL men go (not afc's who exagerate to seem like studs)... A lot of us, myself included, actually have NO idea how many women we've been with. When you get laid for the first time you start counting but then as it becomes less important you stop and if you get laid great if you don't... there's always beer.
Deagleclaw out
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Your friendly neighbourhood Irishman,
lordclem*
Master Don Juan
sh!!!!t thats it sh!t that is the sh!t wow.SC you the man wow.if she asks anymore just say any onme of the good ones posted here.
wow
sc damn
penkitten
Master Don Juan
im a chick.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i dont compare
everyone is different.
and bring me a beer on yer way over. lol jk.
everyone is different.
and bring me a beer on yer way over. lol jk.
DJ Rook
Don Juan
GIRL: How many girls have you been with?
YOU: That depends are we counting midgets as whole people or .5?
GIRL: Seriously?
YOU: Never slept with Seriously but I have slept with Dopey, Grumpy, Happy, and Sneezy, but never could score with Bashful...I wonder why?
keep doing that she'll eventually drop it. It's much more fun than saying none of your business
YOU: That depends are we counting midgets as whole people or .5?
GIRL: Seriously?
YOU: Never slept with Seriously but I have slept with Dopey, Grumpy, Happy, and Sneezy, but never could score with Bashful...I wonder why?
keep doing that she'll eventually drop it. It's much more fun than saying none of your business
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.