"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What do you say if a girl asks how you rate her out of 10

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Every woman has to be told they are the most beautiful.

If I am telling a story to ANY woman and say "This woman was the most beautiful woman" I always throw in the "besides you". They always smile.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bigneil said:
Every woman has to be told they are the most beautiful.

If I am telling a story to ANY woman and say "This woman was the most beautiful woman" I always throw in the "besides you". They always smile.
LOL
 

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"I will tell you in the form of this equation: What's 3x5+9/3+ or - 1="

That should keep her busy for a minute or two.

She might say, "what I'm a 6!?"

Then you say "keep trying."
 

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Mike32ct said:
While I don't usually recommend back-pedaling, you could here...

Mike: Yeah we use this 10 scale. Blah blah blah.

HB: How would I rate from 1 to 10?

Mike: Well let me put it this way... Some guys, including most of my friends use the 10 scale, but honestly, I prefer the Binary Scale myself.

HB: How does it work?

Mike: It's simple. She's either a YES or a NO.

HB: What would I be? <seeking approval>

Mike: Hmmm <Looking at her and building suspense>

Mike: I'd give you a YES. <Slight flirty grin>
binary ftw , it makes every thing easier !
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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probably just laugh at her... nobody sane actually asks that in real life
 
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