"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what do you need to do differently to get a young girl versus older one?

mackdaddy27

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For some reason, most of my success about 3 out of the last 4 have been milfs or just older than me girls ( I m 28, 5'10 )
I think that
> I am more attracted to milfs, so I take up the chance more
> its easier to get to sex , so I know success is easier
> less competition, more success in getting them to go out


but I asked myself the question,
what about me, or why is it harder for me to get a younger girl?

is it because I am not alpha enough for the younger girls, is it because I
dont have enough friends that that are younger to get into their social
groups? I am not being more forceful enough ..?

basically, what do you need to do differently to get a young girl versus older one?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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daygameguy

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It depends. Many younger girls are mature and intelligent and yet beautiful. They really admire a guy who is talented at speaking. Others might be frivolous and probably want a hip guy with muscles or a cool dressing sense just to make herself look good infront of her girl friends. Its tough to generalize these things. Everyone's different. So get out of your head. Don't let your brain give you any preconceptions.
 

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^^^
What he said. There are women in their 50s that still act like teenagers and there are college girls who would put most older women to shame with how mature and together they are.
Also, think about how and where you do your hunting. If you're in the woods, don't expect to catch a lobster. Maybe the problem is the places where you hang out aren't the same places that younger chicks hang out. One thing to try is taking some non-credit courses at a college (glass blowing, a CPR course, cooking class, etc.). You can learn a new skill or hobby and it gives you a perfect excuse to hang out on the campus where the population of younger girls will be stacked in your favor.
 

mackdaddy27

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Farmboy said:
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What he said. There are women in their 50s that still act like teenagers and there are college girls who would put most older women to shame with how mature and together they are.
Also, think about how and where you do your hunting. If you're in the woods, don't expect to catch a lobster. Maybe the problem is the places where you hang out aren't the same places that younger chicks hang out. One thing to try is taking some non-credit courses at a college (glass blowing, a CPR course, cooking class, etc.). You can learn a new skill or hobby and it gives you a perfect excuse to hang out on the campus where the population of younger girls will be stacked in your favor.

thanks, I guess I can try that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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rushing dude 123

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treat them like little girls, the young ones will love it, the older ones will really love it. But yeh don't go on just age because old can act like young, young can act like old. Rather talk to them and adjust it has u get on to know them better. There must b such a difference to u because u THINK there is a difference.
 

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Young chicks just want to have fun. Whether that be you showing them a new way to live or introducing them to new social circles. They don't want anything serious despite what they tell you. They're not old enough to know what they really want due to lack of experience.

Like DonGorgon said, alot of it is based solely on looks. The rest of it is based on your social standing... what can you do for them. Young chicks are at the top of the food chain. THEY are the ones that do the choosing. If you don't make the cut they have a million other guys they can choose from. That may not be what you want to hear, but it's the way it is. The minute you quit being fun.... you're done, replaced, finished.

At the same time they have screwed up ideals of what a relationship should be. They're used to guys their age that they can henpeck and control. So get ready to have your DJ, don't take crap from women, mindset challenged on a daily basis. Get ready for alot of drama if you get involved with them, trust me. It'll be a wild ride but it'll also be a fun one.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Captain Harlock

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It's completely different for everyone. It all depends on how 'mature' they are and their preferences.
 

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If you interact socially with young girls you end up with young girls. if you interact with old women you get old women. Beyond that a woman doesn't change much mentally past about 22.
 

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I used to be somewhat of a 'milfslayer.' Of course, I pulled them from the bar, and it rarely led to more than a ONS, but it sure as hell wasnt about money. In my personal experience, I've found it is easier to 'get to the point' with a milf. If they are in the mood to get laid, they make it easy.

One time I saw one sitting by herself, and I sat next to her an chatted her up. We bullshyt for twenty minutes or so. She answers her phone. I ask if it was her BF. She said she didnt have one. A few minutes later, she says something about liking kinky sex. I say "I live across the street, and I have bondage on my bed. Lets go." 45 minute F close. Straight to the point. I have had other similar situations with milfs. Get them a buzz, and start talking about sex, and they will open the door for you.
 
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