Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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what do you need to do differently to get a young girl versus older one?

mackdaddy27

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For some reason, most of my success about 3 out of the last 4 have been milfs or just older than me girls ( I m 28, 5'10 )
I think that
> I am more attracted to milfs, so I take up the chance more
> its easier to get to sex , so I know success is easier
> less competition, more success in getting them to go out


but I asked myself the question,
what about me, or why is it harder for me to get a younger girl?

is it because I am not alpha enough for the younger girls, is it because I
dont have enough friends that that are younger to get into their social
groups? I am not being more forceful enough ..?

basically, what do you need to do differently to get a young girl versus older one?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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daygameguy

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It depends. Many younger girls are mature and intelligent and yet beautiful. They really admire a guy who is talented at speaking. Others might be frivolous and probably want a hip guy with muscles or a cool dressing sense just to make herself look good infront of her girl friends. Its tough to generalize these things. Everyone's different. So get out of your head. Don't let your brain give you any preconceptions.
 

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^^^
What he said. There are women in their 50s that still act like teenagers and there are college girls who would put most older women to shame with how mature and together they are.
Also, think about how and where you do your hunting. If you're in the woods, don't expect to catch a lobster. Maybe the problem is the places where you hang out aren't the same places that younger chicks hang out. One thing to try is taking some non-credit courses at a college (glass blowing, a CPR course, cooking class, etc.). You can learn a new skill or hobby and it gives you a perfect excuse to hang out on the campus where the population of younger girls will be stacked in your favor.
 

mackdaddy27

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Farmboy said:
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What he said. There are women in their 50s that still act like teenagers and there are college girls who would put most older women to shame with how mature and together they are.
Also, think about how and where you do your hunting. If you're in the woods, don't expect to catch a lobster. Maybe the problem is the places where you hang out aren't the same places that younger chicks hang out. One thing to try is taking some non-credit courses at a college (glass blowing, a CPR course, cooking class, etc.). You can learn a new skill or hobby and it gives you a perfect excuse to hang out on the campus where the population of younger girls will be stacked in your favor.

thanks, I guess I can try that.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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rushing dude 123

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treat them like little girls, the young ones will love it, the older ones will really love it. But yeh don't go on just age because old can act like young, young can act like old. Rather talk to them and adjust it has u get on to know them better. There must b such a difference to u because u THINK there is a difference.
 

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Young chicks just want to have fun. Whether that be you showing them a new way to live or introducing them to new social circles. They don't want anything serious despite what they tell you. They're not old enough to know what they really want due to lack of experience.

Like DonGorgon said, alot of it is based solely on looks. The rest of it is based on your social standing... what can you do for them. Young chicks are at the top of the food chain. THEY are the ones that do the choosing. If you don't make the cut they have a million other guys they can choose from. That may not be what you want to hear, but it's the way it is. The minute you quit being fun.... you're done, replaced, finished.

At the same time they have screwed up ideals of what a relationship should be. They're used to guys their age that they can henpeck and control. So get ready to have your DJ, don't take crap from women, mindset challenged on a daily basis. Get ready for alot of drama if you get involved with them, trust me. It'll be a wild ride but it'll also be a fun one.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Captain Harlock

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It's completely different for everyone. It all depends on how 'mature' they are and their preferences.
 

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If you interact socially with young girls you end up with young girls. if you interact with old women you get old women. Beyond that a woman doesn't change much mentally past about 22.
 

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I used to be somewhat of a 'milfslayer.' Of course, I pulled them from the bar, and it rarely led to more than a ONS, but it sure as hell wasnt about money. In my personal experience, I've found it is easier to 'get to the point' with a milf. If they are in the mood to get laid, they make it easy.

One time I saw one sitting by herself, and I sat next to her an chatted her up. We bullshyt for twenty minutes or so. She answers her phone. I ask if it was her BF. She said she didnt have one. A few minutes later, she says something about liking kinky sex. I say "I live across the street, and I have bondage on my bed. Lets go." 45 minute F close. Straight to the point. I have had other similar situations with milfs. Get them a buzz, and start talking about sex, and they will open the door for you.
 
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