"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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apocolipto

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Hey guys,watsup?

I am interested in everybodies style of game.Gimme a insight on your style and if it works great for you.

And the other thing is,would you guys rather be a "player" with "relationships" with a lot of girls,or going exclusive with a one awesome chick?

Hit me up guys:)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BPH

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What do I like? Boobs

What is my style of game? Sexual and direct. Works great, I get in, get the number, get out

Player or Relationships? Player, but it's not that simple. I genuinely like the girls I have sex with and don't just see them as a number. But I would hate being exclusive with one girl
 

apocolipto

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Why would you say it's not that simple being a player? Keeping it hidden or gals that don't like the idea?
 

AlexLefty

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I would rather be playing multiple awesome chicks.

My game is intelligent, awareness.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Since i'm kinda new to this.. I really feel like im somewhat of a good guy.. I'm the guy that care, but because of my awesomeness, Girls just come flying! I dont go for one-night stands, if I actually go for a girl, there is a reason.. Thats atleast what im thinking of myself right now.. Not that i know how it will work out!

-P
 

LearningSlowly

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Im definitely looking for intellectual connection. If I cant sit and have a good conversation with the girl, I probably wont want her, even if shes hot. I love long term relationships but its been a while since I had a good one.

As far as my game goes... At parties Im witty and constantly talking. I meet everyone at the place and assume friendship and see if they reciprocate. On dates Im quieter, my kino is heavier and I try to go for the kiss before halfway through the date.

My game works okay, but its hard for me to get one night stands with hot chicks. Havent been in an LTR recently but my last one was solid looking and that was before any of this game stuff. When I go to college I think I'll find myself a hot and intelligent LTR.
 

NorwegianDJ

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I'm usually that quiet guy in with the cool kids. To quote some random guy from a festival: "You look so damn cool. I know you're not being social AT ALL when I say this, but you just look so on point." I should've hung with him.
Anyway, I imagine myself to be mysterious and deadly on the trigger when the opportunity comes. I'm fairly direct, just not really verbally. I mix it up and I'm everchanging.

I like several girls, but I'm looking forward to a few solid relationships too.
 

alxrose04

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(This is a great thread btw)

I'm the socialable guy that will approach a girl directly. I don't try to use indirect game because, for me, that lands me in the friend zone. Plus, with direct game, I don't waste time trying think of the best opener for the situation because the longer I wait, the more I get in my head.

During my conversation, I like to use a lot of kino and jokes to show her I'm sexual but I have a personality and could make her laugh. I get a lot call/text backs that way.

That's how I do. :p
 

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I love how every individual's game differs to fit his personality.That was the point of the thread,we can learn from fellow DJ's.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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