What do you like to do when not pursing women?

[spiegel549]

I won't lie. I need a few ideas. I work, go to the gym, read articles, hang out with the boys, go out on weekends etc. I have been working very hard on developing a solid mindset of not being outcome dependent, but as you know all from experience it is not accomplished over night.

With that said, when your plates are busy, your off work. What do you like to do to keep busy? What works for you to keep that mind distracted and off the thoughts of women?

Would enjoy reading what you guys have to say

 

[VladPatton]

Guitar playing, and recording. It's difficult, it's fun, and it's rewarding for me. Try learning a skill that lets you create something. You'll have it forever.

 

[Eph]

Learn a multitude of skills! I play basketball, and football, do parkour (used to) skate(board), and program on my computer. I'm learning Spanish, and how to play guitar, and I will eventually get around to learning Japanese and Italian too, as well as learn how to play piano. Learn something new! You only live once.

 

[vinkoch]

Guitar, writing music, reading up on changes in my career field, carpentry and foreign affairs, spanish on and off, fishing, weightlifting especially grip sport my favorite lately. Rifle range. And monitoring my investment portfolio.
Your priority should not be women. Not gonna lie I can get distracted when new poon comes my way. But make an effort to set goals and continuously plan to achieve them. Dont look at this as a distraction from women when they aren't around.

 

[skinnyguy]

Yes guitar is awesome. I used to play bass and need to start playing again. Go to a concert, learn to dance, watch a funny movie, cook a good healthy meal, take a long drive, buy yourself something nice at the mall, volunteer at a shelter, or watch porn.

Just kidding about the last one.

 

[mangotot]

I watch NFL.

 

[EvilSpirit22]

I am in a band so I usually write some new songs and I play guitar plus I am a good singer so I love to sing and strum when I am not pursuing women. I love reading books and other informative stuff online and I love to workout whether its a 30 minute run or weightlifting.

I sleep at 5am in the morning and I utilize my night time to get better because that peace and serenity of silence actually empowers me to do whatever I want to do.

I always study at night from 11pm to 9am and i've been doing this since last 8 years.

If you wanna know more about yourself then just sit alone at night and introspect. Ask questions from yourself and decide as to what should be your next goal.

If you know everything about yourself, trust me, you will fall in love with yourself.

 

[Mike32ct]

1. Practice dance (ballroom and hustle).
2. Study French
3. Read
4. Go out to see a live band
5. Exercise
6. Home repairs and other projects at the house

 

[Between_The_Lines]

Draw, draw, draw. So many great parallels with women too.

-takes many sketchbooks, loads of patience, preponderance of failure, tons of practice to finally get 'good'
-good idea to loosen up/warm up beforehand
-through constant repetition, the more you'll come to see what style (or type of girl) you like, which type you dislike

The road to mastery is a tough one, but man is it worth it. I have an aversion toward 'universals', but I'll make an exception by saying that I think every guy should aspire to achieve mastery in at least one thing throughout the course of their lives.