"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What Do You Like The Most About Women?

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Hey guys, on this forum we talk about common problems that arise on the way to meeting and sexing girls.

Let's talk about the things that you appreciate in women.

So! WHAT DO YOU LIKE ABOUT WOMEN or WHAT SHOULD THE PERFECT WOMAN HAVE TO MAKE YOU WANT HER?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So far: Nothing.

Except we still want them!

Thats the only thing that I like them about.
 
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I appreciate the Bj's they give when they just wanna make u feel good.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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any of you that will find a good woman thats good to you will almost like anything about her.. guys dont let the bpd and bad ones make you dislike woman..
 
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Jair213 said:
any of you that will find a good woman thats good to you will almost like anything about her.. guys dont let the bpd and bad ones make you dislike woman..
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Nah just more likely to spot one early on. That's the only good thing about having a BPD devil in your past.
 
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GS750 said:
Nah just more likely to spot one early on. That's the only good thing about having a BPD devil in your past.
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a bpd could do some serious damage to you.. i experienced it. sh!!tt was wackkk
 
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Jair213 said:
a bpd could do some serious damage to you.. i experienced it. sh!!tt was wackkk
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Very true. It's a mind fvck from beginning to end. Learned a few things though.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Boobs.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JohnChops said:
By thes answers provided you can smell the loneliness on this forum.

Nothing better than a huge genuine smile when a girl laughs. Nothing better.
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Agree 100%. A great smile and laugh from a pretty girl can make your day.
 
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stevo said:
What I like most is their response during seks. What a great feeling it is to look at a girl far gone in passion moaning your name. That feeling right there is addictive.
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Stevo nailed it, no pun intended. Watching a broad lose her sh*t saying omg I love your c*ck.

Sorta what GS said too, the whole great smile deal knowing you just made her wet & she knows that you know.

Other than that the obvious stuff.....
 
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Have you noticed how most of it is SEX, COMPANIONSHIP and PERSONALITY.

You were not saying ahhh yeah I want that HB10 bla bla bla.

Guys, next time you are out looking for a woman don't waste time on those that have no personality, will not have sex with you and certainly will not provide companionship!!!

Only invest time in women who you are certain about. You know for sure she will have sex and she will support you. After all this is what we are looking for, support and a way to get by in the most fun way.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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