What do you guys want out of this?

[Mr.Fantastic]

I don't really know what I want out of all this any more. I mean I do - women, but hell, the price is stiff. I don't know, I was with a girl for 9 months, and towards the end of it I was ****ting myself because I was worried that this would be the last girl I ever sleep with, and I just wasn't sure if she was 'the one' etc.

I feel like I want to be with a LOT of women while I am young so that I do not look back on a wasted youth. I have a high sex drive but so far in my life I have only slept with 5 girls. Several of these were ONS and the others were very short relationships - ended because the girls were not up to my standard. My girlfriend was great, sexy, great personality, but I got tetchy because I just wanted to sample what else was on offer.

Now I am back in the game, it has been a while, and I am not having any sex because my game is not tight enough. I feel like I want to go back to the security of my girl - she still loves me, but I feel like i would be cutting myself short - there is this urge to satisfy my youthful desires before I settle down. I want to sample lots of girls before I die, I want to experience lots of different sexual encounters, lots of different personalities, and I want to develop my own personality in the process.

I guess i'm just wondering if any of you feel the same, or if you feel different? perhaps you just want to meet one girl and leave it at that? perhaps you want loads? and if so, how many exactly until you are satisfied?

At the moment I am not satisfied - I am also not over my girlfriend...who I broke up with, largely to do with these reasons.


by the by, I do intend to find the right girl, but I just don't want to find her just yet...if that makes sense?

I am lost.

 

[DonGorgon]

Well relationships have been rendered impractical by our overly capitalist culture , people no longer care to come together other than to F, then they want to be free to F the next person in line. either join in or .....

 

[L777]

I just want lots of sex with different girls....but for the right reasons: i.e the sex itself....I don't care how I come across, I don't need validation and I don't need to let everyone know how many/how hot the girls are that I'm screwing.

I like my own company a lot...I don't need any relationship to make me happy or make me feel complete.

Some guys don't find themselves their whole life. I'm only 20 and have. Cool huh?

 

[DonGorgon]

I just want lots of sex with different girls....but for the right reasons: i.e the sex itself....I don't care how I come across, I don't need validation and I don't need to let everyone know how many/how hot the girls are that I'm screwing.

I like my own company a lot...I don't need any relationship to make me happy or make me feel complete.

Some guys don't find themselves their whole life. I'm only 20 and have. Cool huh?

Exactly what i just said...