what do you guys usually send the day after date after getting sexual/sex?

[big weezy]

What message do you guys send to the HB you had sex or got sexual with the day after normally?

I met a HB off the internet yesterday, we didn't have sex but got sexual. Fingered her. Same night thing.

I don't want her to get buyers remorse or feel slutty about last night, what do you guys usually send the day after without looking like a desperate dog overly keen?

 

[Zarky]

"Hey furball, had a great time w you last night, let me know when you've got some more free time"

 

[TheCWord]

I made a thread about this a couple weeks ago which sent me off researching this a bit more... And you know what solution I liked best, OP?

Send her a message saying something positive about last night that ISN'T the sex, but is obvious you're actually talking about the sex. That way you're disarming the slut alarm you're worried about without actually worshipping her vagina.

An example from last weekend: I banged a chick for the first time on Friday, on Saturday I sent her a text, "That was some good wine."

She wrote back something along the lines of, "It certainly was "

 

[888]

That's clever as heII CWord; I'll be sure to make use of that one.

 

[Iceberg]

What message do you guys send to the HB you had sex or got sexual with the day after normally?

I met a HB off the internet yesterday, we didn't have sex but got sexual. Fingered her. Same night thing.

I don't want her to get buyers remorse or feel slutty about last night, what do you guys usually send the day after without looking like a desperate dog overly keen?

I usually send her some antibiotics and rubbing alcohol. But that's only if I like her.

 

[LorenzoVonM]

An invoice

 

[VladPatton]

"Thanks for the DNA sample...I'll let you know if anything goes down"

 

[SgtSplacker]

Depending on the tempo/speed of our communications. I'll usually try to make her wait just long enough for insecurities to set in. Then i'll call.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

I made a thread about this a couple weeks ago which sent me off researching this a bit more... And you know what solution I liked best, OP?

Send her a message saying something positive about last night that ISN'T the sex, but is obvious you're actually talking about the sex. That way you're disarming the slut alarm you're worried about without actually worshipping her vagina.

An example from last weekend: I banged a chick for the first time on Friday, on Saturday I sent her a text, "That was some good wine."

She wrote back something along the lines of, "It certainly was "

That's a great one CWord, and that response is exactly what you're looking for. Texting over. She is now marinating until the next time you see each other.

It's also a test for her. If she responds: "wine?? That's what you're thinking about? The wine!!!"

Then you know you have someone "special" on your hands and it may be time to eject.

 

[Mike32ct]

A thank you note. "Thanks, please c@m again" lol

In all seriousness, just a casual greeting text is probably fine like, "Hey how's your day going?"

All she really wants to know is you haven't pumped and dumped her and disappeared, unless it's a ONS.

If she responds with some sexual innunedo, you can tease her with more. Otherwise, a normal conversation is fine.

 

[zinc4]

i a usualy straight to the point...just hey, had a good time with you.....when are u free again....although usually i have the next date set up in advance if i have already banged her and like her

 

[Ronaldo7]

A thank you note. "Thanks, please c@m again" lol

In all seriousness, just a casual greeting text is probably fine like, "Hey how's your day going?"

All she really wants to know is you haven't pumped and dumped her and disappeared, unless it's a ONS.

If she responds with some sexual innunedo, you can tease her with more. Otherwise, a normal conversation is fine.

LOL. I once texted that to some girl and she got all upset. I couldn't figure it out at all. Some people just don't appreciate creativity....