what do you guys think?

[iHatePants]

So lately i've really changed my life around. I've been bulking up my skinny frame. Bought new cloths and have been perfecting on my DJ skills at work on the female coworkers (long time reader and lurker, first time poster). Top it off my parents got rid of thier POS car and got a much better one that I enjoy driving around.

I used to be a serious AFC. Like I was absolutely nervouse to talk to a girl. I would never imagine being a jerk to a girl. I thought it was wrong and I hated them. I would tell girls sob stories about me hoping to win thier hearts. But my perspective has really changed now.

Anyways heres what im trying to get at. Back in my AFC days I sorta, kinda dated this one girl (HB7.5,8ish). 1 date with her and it was bad. She said she liked me because I was different from the other guys and I didn't come off as a meat head to her. We kinda stopped dating but we still see each other. I mean my frineds hang out with her still so I see her at get together and parties. She still likes to talk to me and hang out (just not alone with me). We never really broke up you could say. We just stopped being close to each other and moved on. I guess we both new nothing was going on. I also think she got bored of my AFC behavouir. In fact im positive this is why she stopped seeing me.

So she hasn't really seen the new me. I haven't talked to her in months. But my friend is having this house party and im totally going. This girl is gonna be there too (hopefully).

I still want to let her know im interested in getting back together but I don't want to come off as clingy and desperate for her. So I was thinking of gonig in there pertending I didn't even realize she was at the party and start hitting on the other girls at the party. Im gonna try and become the life of the party and blow everyone off thier feet with how confident i've become.

Im hoping this will get her attention and maybe she'll think about hooking up with me again?

You guys think this is a good plan or should I just forget her and move on?

 

[animal crackers]

Don't "try" to get with her. Actually I don't suggest you get with her at all, and instead go pickup girls for 5 nights a week for 6 months. But...

If you want this girl just be the "new you" that you say you are with everyone at the party. She will see that you are awesome, and want to be with you. Then all you have to do is lead the interaction. (that's the guy's job)

Here's a plan for you:

Chill out at party, be fun and spontaneous.

Get near that girl. Tease her. Come up with some fun little adventure that you do together THAT NIGHT. ex. go steal alcohol from some lame dudes or something together.

Hang out together on a couch and gradually get more touchy feely.

Definately try to get her semi-alone and kiss her.

If you don't have a chance to get intimate that night, get her #. It will be solid because you have value by being a cool fun guy that can take action for what he wants.




animal crackers