"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PVSSY-EATER

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I read in a book, that when you get a girls number, you should make it like she wants you to call her, and not like you like her. Is this true, or does my tactic of saying, Write yo number down so I can hit you up, work better. By the way, this tactic gets me a lot of numbers quick and simple, without having to go into crazy approach games or something. I may simply say, whats up, start a little convo, throw in some ****y and funny, then just simply say, write yo number down so I can hit you up. And thats it!

Another question is, I find out now, that calling a girl the next day, works better for me than waiting 3 days, because they usually dont remember me after then.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If they don't remember after a few days you're either going after the wrong kind of girls or you didn't cast a very good impression or both.

Try not to force things so quickly.
 

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I think it depends on the girl's self-esteem, but you always want to leave them wanting more regardless. First impressions are important but last impressions are even more important. This is where flaking comes into play I believe. Leave them wanting more and they will be less likely to flake once you do call them and try to arrange going out.
 

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Yeah.. I practice the rule of three or sometimes four if she is a savvy girl who knows that you will use that rule. She will be waiting for your call on day 3... so that makes it an agonizing wait until you ring on the fourth.
 
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