"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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PVSSY-EATER

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I read in a book, that when you get a girls number, you should make it like she wants you to call her, and not like you like her. Is this true, or does my tactic of saying, Write yo number down so I can hit you up, work better. By the way, this tactic gets me a lot of numbers quick and simple, without having to go into crazy approach games or something. I may simply say, whats up, start a little convo, throw in some ****y and funny, then just simply say, write yo number down so I can hit you up. And thats it!

Another question is, I find out now, that calling a girl the next day, works better for me than waiting 3 days, because they usually dont remember me after then.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If they don't remember after a few days you're either going after the wrong kind of girls or you didn't cast a very good impression or both.

Try not to force things so quickly.
 

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I think it depends on the girl's self-esteem, but you always want to leave them wanting more regardless. First impressions are important but last impressions are even more important. This is where flaking comes into play I believe. Leave them wanting more and they will be less likely to flake once you do call them and try to arrange going out.
 

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Yeah.. I practice the rule of three or sometimes four if she is a savvy girl who knows that you will use that rule. She will be waiting for your call on day 3... so that makes it an agonizing wait until you ring on the fourth.
 
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