"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What do you guys think?

Bossman1112

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Today I was with my group of friends in the corridor of our school at the end of the day like everyday. We were all beginning to go our seperate ways when one of my friends, lets call her HBShort, came over and started a short conversation with another friend, HBCutie.

Now HBShort is a lesbian, and is openly gay. So at the end of their conversation, to my surprise, HBShort sticks her hand down HBCuties shirt, grabs her boob and says playfully "Oh, its warm". She laughs and walks away, leaving HBCutie with a smile on her face and few things to say.

What im baffled by is how HBShort got away with this. Because HBCutie isnt gay at all, and she has no type of sexual relationship with HBShort, except for the flirting HBShort does with her. My initial answer to my own question is that shes a major flirt, and because everyone knows this, they just let her do what she wants. But I knoe so many other flirts who have gotten slaps in the face for attempting something as small as grabbing a girls ass or just simply looking at her boobs.

Then I thought about it some more and came up with one other answer. was it because she acted on impulse? She wanted to do what she did, so she did it. She handles all other sexual situations like this, and gets away with stuff I woudnt dare attempt. (Maybe because of the morals I grew up with, or cause im too much of a punk to do anything like this with someone whos just a friend, or a little bit of both).

What do you guys think? She gets away with these things because she acts on impulse?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LearningSlowly

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I know a football player who does stuff like that. He's a slob, and a heavy weed smoker. He's hyper sexual and physical with every girl. He'll tell girls he wants to ****, he'll grab their boobs and ass, lift up their skirts and pull down their pants. He literally does whatever he wants, and gets away with it because he's just joking and does it with everyone.

Now he's not lifting up skirts and grabbing boobs every day, but he'll always touch people, he'll always talk about sex and he's always joking.

It works when you just go with it.
 

NorwegianDJ

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I usually do it outside of a school setting, as we have PDA rules in my school, which has suspended me once already. Act like you have permission and its usually chilled.
 

NobodyCares1

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well I have female friends that are heterosexual... one even has a boyfriend but they touch eachothers boobs quite often and openly... it's that they don't take it as offensive from a girl than from a dude... although I also know a dude who just walks up to a female friend and touches her boobs or puts his face between them... but from what I know he doesn't have much success with girls other than that...
 
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