What do you guys think??

[freshprince]

1st question

When is it okay to ask a girl for her phone number, is it okay to ask her on the first approach if you don't know her and its the first time you've met her, i don't think so unless she is giving you signals and when do you do it, if you do know her, lets just say she is a classmate of yours, then i think its okay ...what do you guys think?

2nd question
when do you make the big move, as in the first kiss. A 22 yr guy said to me that you do it when the mood is right, so i asked him how do you know when the mode is right, he said that he can't really explain it but you just know and do you do it on the 1st date or on the 2nd?

I just though these would be some good questions to ask, so let me get your opinions on this.

 

[thedoc]

1st question
When is it okay to ask a girl for her phone number, is it okay to ask her on the first approach if you don't know her and its the first time you've met her, i don't think so unless she is giving you signals and when do you do it, if you do know her, lets just say she is a classmate of yours, then i think its okay ...what do you guys think?

It's completely fine. Go for it .

2nd question
when do you make the big move, as in the first kiss. A 22 yr guy said to me that you do it when the mood is right, so i asked him how do you know when the mode is right, he said that he can't really explain it but you just know and do you do it on the 1st date or on the 2nd?

I just though these would be some good questions to ask, so let me get your opinions on this.

22 year old guy was right. You'll definitely know when it's right. Just don't pvssy out. If she says no, move in again, if she says no, you can try a third time . It's happened to me a few times when on the third try she gave in lol. If she still says no, start talking about something else and pretend nothing happened- try again later lol.

What's worked for me is for the first date do something short and fun. About hooking up, it all depends on the situation.
However, if there is a second date, then that means she's interested, so there's no reason you shouldn't hook up with her. Just know if you don't hook up with her by then, chances are, there isn't going to be a third.

 

[freshprince]

@ thedoc
so you asked her? I was always told by other not to ask if its okay to kiss a girl, people have always told me to just go for it, i tried it and i have to say it did not go the way i planned it, she moved back when i went forward but she liked me so she let me kiss her anyways so i was lucky there lol

it's okay to ask i guess but i tried asking and they always say NO! so thats why i said i will stop asking and just go for it, whenever the mood is right like you and the 22yr old guy said.

thanks for commenting though, appreciate it.

 

[eaglez1177]

1st question

When is it okay to ask a girl for her phone number, is it okay to ask her on the first approach if you don't know her and its the first time you've met her, i don't think so unless she is giving you signals and when do you do it, if you do know her, lets just say she is a classmate of yours, then i think its okay ...what do you guys think?

Dont overanalyze this, because I can tell you sort of are. So what if you've just met the chick or you don't even know her name; there is NEVER a wrong time to get a girls number.

2nd question
when do you make the big move, as in the first kissyou think a first kiss is a "big move"? Lol proposing to a woman is a big move, not the first kiss. If you make it something so big and important, its just going to get you nervous and anxious. You should be cool and act like its nothing special, because you are the MAN, and the MAN has done this MANY times.. A 22 yr guy said to me that you do it when the mood is right, so i asked him how do you know when the mode is right, he said that he can't really explain it but you just know and do you do it on the 1st date or on the 2nd?

Like I said before, there is never a wrong time to go in for a kiss. And also, STOP listening to your friend. One of the worst things you can do when you want to kiss a girl is stressing/worrying over whether if "its the right time" or if "the mood is right". DO NOT DO THAT!!!! If you do that you're just gonna constantly wind up making excuses for yourself like "Ahh idk I cant kiss her now cuz its not the right time" or "Idk what to do im not sure if its the right mood now or what she will think". DO NOT let those thoughts run through your head. Trust me man i've been through it and it causes soooo much unneeded stress and worry.

I personally always strive to go for the kiss on the 1st date. Always go for it as quickly as possible. Best i've ever done was about 10 minutes into the first date.

I just though these would be some good questions to ask, so let me get your opinions on this.

This should help

EDIT: and yes, NEVER ask for a kiss

 

[sageproduct]

I think when thedoc said "the chick said no" he means that the girl rejected his first few attempts at a kiss, not that he asked her and she said no.

 

[freshprince]

@ eaglez
i was not overanalyzing anything dude, my friends have asked these questions too and like i said before i just thought it would be good to ask them, get different views and isn't it good to ask questions?
it is true what you said in 3rd paragraph you do tend to get nervous/anxious when you think about too much and after reading so many articles and the dj bible, plus putting SOME of these things into practice it is best to just stay cool because nothing good comes from worrying.

@ sageproduct
maybe i have misconstrue that wrong thanks.

anyways thanks for commenting.

 

[nateistoraw]

if you don't get her number, how do you know if you'll ever see her again?