"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What do you guys think?

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BenPW-DJNewbie

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Theres this girl that told me she thinks Im fit, and that she fancies me?
I have known her about 3-4 days. My female friend thinks she's just desperate, and my male friends say that if I like her, then go for her?
She's a year younger than me, so i dont know whether people will tease me cos of it? What do you guys think I should do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tenzen

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Wth, year younger is nothing.... Girls act more mature then a guy does enough though the guys older. I hear that crap all the time... must be true go for it! or u'll be thinking later on what could of happened if i went for it. Laterz
 

yama600rr

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she's a year older then you, and yourfriends may make fun of you???? whatttt? you and your friends are bunch of idiots!!!!! whats wrong with you people
 

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See where it goes.
You can always dump her :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In reply to yama600rr: She's a year YOUNGER than me, if you bothered to read my post correctly, you obviously would have seen that... also,I'm contemplating whether they WOULD make fun of me, I just wanted some decent opinions.
I'm going to see her sometime this week. If she's an immature little girl, I wont bother.
 
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