Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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crazyman11

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Well, i'm gonna make my move on this girl that i'm sure is interested in me

After one of the classes i have her in, i'll ask her if she's still single, if she says yes(which she most likely is) then i'll put my arm around her and say "well, uh.....(pause for suspense!) what's your favorite cereal?" with a nice smile. I'll ask her for her digits after that. What do you guys think? Anything i'm missing, or should just forget about?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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crazyman11 said:
Well, i'm gonna make my move on this girl that i'm sure is interested in me

After one of the classes i have her in, i'll ask her if she's still single, if she says yes(which she most likely is) then i'll put my arm around her and say "well, uh.....(pause for suspense!) what's your favorite cereal?" with a nice smile. I'll ask her for her digits after that. What do you guys think? Anything i'm missing, or should just forget about?
Not to be a dik but WTF is with asking chicks are they single, it sounds so AFC. An why are you focused on one specific girl. This just sounds like a deseperate AFC move that was thought up.

My advice to use is practice ACTUALLY learning how to become a attractive man and actually understanding pickup that way you don't have to be coming up with retarded ways to try and get women.

This is the flaws I see in this approach
Is she still single: Going up saying that is AFC because you may not have any value in her eyes and you just end up being a guy trying to take value from her. She knows you like her and you already gave up your frame. Then she says yes...ok say you get the # your now in the dating frame. But what if she says No?

Going Straight for the #: This is something I don't understand about alot of people. #s don't mean sh!t and don't guarantee nothing. Run solid game and if you can't have sex with her that day due to logistics THEN go for the # because just going for the # and leaving will most likely amount to flaking or your going to have to really run some tight game on the phone. All the # does is to give you more time to convey your personality because you weren't able to continue the interaction that same day.

But hey I'm all for guys trying and learning from there own experience so I say go for it, have fun and you can come up with your own conclusion on whether it was good or bad.
 

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crazyman11 said:
Well, i'm gonna make my move on this girl that i'm sure is interested in me

After one of the classes i have her in, i'll ask her if she's still single, if she says yes(which she most likely is) then i'll put my arm around her and say "well, uh.....(pause for suspense!) what's your favorite cereal?" with a nice smile. I'll ask her for her digits after that. What do you guys think? Anything i'm missing, or should just forget about?
I agree with Snow Plowman, I really don't like this approach. You're going to be putting your arm around her because you received a specific response, way too approval seeking.

If you really want to find out if she's single, get in a conversation with her and wait for an opportunity to disguise the question if she's single or not with the conversation. Like talk to her for a bit, then ask her "So who's going to be picking you up after school? Your boyfriend?" I usually get these responses: "No, someone else", "No, I don't have a boyfriend actually", and I even got "Well, yeah, kinda, we're not going out we're just talking."

Or if you have her myspace or facebook, just look her up.
 

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"After one of the classes i have her in, i'll put my arm around her and say "what's your favorite cereal?" with a nice smile. I'll ask her for her digits after that."

Nice plan, make it more interesting when you actually do it though.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well, i got a little too excited, and forgot to ask for her number:eek: . Aaahhh should i wait til monday to get it, or should i just get it off of myspace? Or is myspace too afc or whatever? Hehe, she got pretty red when i did it too :)
 

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u forgot to ask for the number?????????????


:trouble:
 

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haha as long as you werent embarassed
 

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Hey, hey hey!!!! I'm still gettin used to this stuff! Haha, people are surprised to find out that i've never even had a girlfriend. I think i give off the aura of a true DJ, but i still got some work to do! Yea, i think i'll just wait til monday,and i'll ask her for her number. I'll stay away from myspace. I know if i forget to get her number, i'm gonna be pretty pissed at myself.
 

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Lol unlucky mate. Just get it next time you talk to her. And you know when your giving off the aura of a true DJ when people start callin you a man***** when you don't actually sleep around, in a friendly teasing way ofc :p.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hell yea. I was in this thing for a club, and i was just gaming up all the girls and when one of the club presidents was like "Ey, you guys shouldn't be so quiet, but you don't need to be big pimpin like crazyman11 over here" haha, everyone(mostly some guys) thinks i'm a player lol
 
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