"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What do you guys think of my myspace page?

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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danielzxc

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Lol @ the topless pic. Dude, you might think people are "jealous" or something when they tell you to lose that pic, but bro, seriously, it's not a good one. You don't have to be a sixpac underwear model to have a topless pic, but the one you've got at the moment just isn't a good one. A "hoodrat" type chick might like it, but I bet a lot of "classier" chicks are turned off by it. At least don't have it as your main pic.

The rest are good enough. The tongue's a bit...dunno...it's okay I guess. Some chicks might wonder why, if you're a model, these are the best pics you've got posted...but then again, most chicks are prob too thick to pick up on that.


@ ChrisZ and Viciousdog

I don't like either of yours. The pics are from too great a distance. You can't see what you really look like, and this kind of suggests you have "something to hide". Also, only one pic? Again, "hiding" something.

And vicious, in yours, you look like you're trying to suck your gut in and stick your chest out. Maybe you weren't doing it on purpose, but that's what it looks like. It's normal to wanna give the best impression, but that only works if people can't tell you're trying.
 

Tear Gas

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aight i did some changes...added a new "tame" pic..lol, im all ears
 
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