"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What do you guys think of my myspace page?

Tear Gas

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www.myspace.com/mugentypes

i get atleast 1-2 friend requests from pretty attractive girls, i just made it like a couple weeks ago

what do you guys think bros? anything i can do to make it better :rockon:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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azanon

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Agree with B4. You have 4 pics; 3 of a nice looking dude, and one that looks like some punk; your main pic. (I know that's you too)

Other than that; nice page.
 

AbsolutBeirut

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Put your pics up on HotorNot, you'll be surprised how people's opinions differ so much from yours.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tear Gas

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BadJadder said:
Put your pics up on HotorNot, you'll be surprised how people's opinions differ so much from yours.
gotcha...which opinions were you referring to? are you saying people on hotornot are more generious with compliments than on myspace?
 

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Why put anything on Hot or Not? Who gives a **** how others perceive your looks...

The only reason I could see someone doing this would be for:
1. Confidence boosting
2. Confidence boosting
3. Ego massaging
4. ?
5. Insecurities
6. Attention whoring
 

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you don't really have much to show off in your main picture other than a slightly developed four pack so the whole shirtless thing is corny.
 
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Do you have your sister's pants on?? :rolleyes:

What's up with the low crotch shyt -- let the hors wear that, not you!!
 

Tear Gas

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Amante Silvestre said:
The two tongue pics are no good, but your hair style and clothes in those pics are solid. The "old day" pic doesn't show your best features and the spike cut is no good for you. The shirtless is trying too hard and cheesy.

Get a couple of pics like the tongue shots without the tongue and you'll be golden. Play the Mediterranean angle a little; you can totally pull it off.

The music is good. Stick with it.

Drop the "Who I'd like to meet" pic and stick the camouflage chick in there instead. That's hot. The one you've got there now is too "underwear model" and mainstream. Like something out of a Sears Catalog.

Drop your college status, call yourself a model and bump your salary up to 80K minimal. Six figures if you can give your page the "modeling" feel.

Bullsh-t your way through Myspace. My cous does it all of the time.
haha this sounds like a good idea...i did what i can so far (im gonna get some **** from my friends lol)...changed some stuff around. let me know what you think! :rock: oh yea i thought the tongue pics were a good idea because they give an edge or a ****y/partyboy/fun type image to me...girls dont go for boring nice guys
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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B4IFURU18? said:
Why put anything on Hot or Not? Who gives a **** how others perceive your looks...

The only reason I could see someone doing this would be for:
1. Confidence boosting
2. Confidence boosting
3. Ego massaging
4. ?
5. Insecurities
6. Attention whoring
#4 So that you have an unbiased opinion as to which pic looks the best. What matters IS what pic others like, especially the women.

Drop your college status, call yourself a model and bump your salary up to 80K minimal. Six figures if you can give your page the "modeling" feel.
There's a certain level of "sad" in having to lie to get a chick. So when they first meet, what's supposed to be his answer to how the modelling career is going?
 

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Don't have your default pic as you with no top on, that looks needy and insecure, and somewhat tryhard.

Have the last pic, the "Downtown" pic as your default.

Get rid of the chick's pic under "Who I'd like to meet", that looks AFC as hell.
 

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Hmmm. I'm no guru on this advice. I don't like your profile. Kind of attention wh0ring. I'd expect that from a chick. Your profile lacks realness. Look some models or acress profiles, you'll understand what I mean. Rollo Tomatsi has a nice profile.

If you want to check out mine click X at the bottom.

My could be good, could be bad, thing is I don't care.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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get rid of the tounge pics and the pic with your shirt off.

those pics make you look like your trying way way to hard to be cool.

dont you have any hobbies? or things your passionate about?

your profile is the run of the mill im a cool myspace guy trying to get laid.

you should make something unique to you.
 

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I liked yours tear, so i took a few things from it, the scarface, and layout..

Can i get some advice.. last time i had a myspace i was like 15, and it looked retarded when i think about it now..

http://www.myspace.com/123255335
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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