What do you guys think about this?

[charlie brown]

Theres a girl I met not too long ago here at school. She played me pretty good and got me to go to her place 6-7 times really late at night w/out ever coming to my place. She was in control. Well now the tables are turning.
I tried using a tension loop and told her I had a surprise for her that she could have if she visits me. She played her games , i played back, and the messaging ended without her coming here. I didnt really care. ( she said she s never had a bf cuz she likes guys too much... ha, so this girl is Not dating material )
Now shes dying to know what the secret is , hahaha. And there isnt one.
She keeps contacting me to find out.
I was gonna come clean when we hang out and tell her, but the tension has built up enormously and shes ready to pop. Anyone have any ideas on how to calm her down or anything witty that would help fizzle this situation?

 

[charlie brown]

not end the situation, but tone it down. shes really excited like i won the lottery or somethin

perhaps i shouldnt bring it up and let the tension reside in her?

 

[DJDamage]

Tell her: "until you don't come over to my place you will never know what the surprise is"

Stick to your guns.

 

[charlie brown]

thats what i said dj, and she says ill come over IF you tell me

 

[DJDamage]

thats what i said dj, and she says ill come over IF you tell me

I think you need to read my quote again.

Stick to your guns.

She is banking that you will cave in. If you cave in there is no mystery no nothing so why would she even come over?? That is why I said stick to your guns (when a man stick's to his guns and doesn't flip flop to her whims he is more repsected and attractive in the eye of the girl). If she is really interested and curious she will eventually break and come around and if not its her loss (no harm done but yet you keep the mystery and being a challange). In this game of cat of mouse, you be the dog! got that???!!

DjDamage