"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

What do you guys think about this?

Tazman

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 26, 2004
Messages
1,282
Reaction score
30
Age
47
Part of a woman's response to a guy trying to adjust to american women after moving from the philllipines.
I like your little comment about AMERICAN WOMEN. Arn't we just the most WONDERFUL breed of women in the World. lol. You said there were PHILPINE women who were AMERCIANIZED. And they didn't interest you.... LOL. Why??? Because we are confident. Because we walk beside our man. Because we walk with our head up. Because we are outspoken and tell it like it is. Because we are tough and don't take BS. Because we are educated. Because we expect to be treated as equals....becuase we are EQUALS. Because we rule our homes with an iron fist and a velvet glove. LOL. I'll tell you something sweetheart... we might be all those things and more...but you will never ever find the kind of LOVE we can give...because when we are treated well.... we give back 100 fold. You could only HOPE to get a piece of that AMERICAN PIE... it just doesn't get any better than that.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

runnincircles

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 26, 2005
Messages
44
Reaction score
0
She makes american women look bad. She sounds like a bltch, too. I would love to DJ her. See how she acts after I'm through with her.
 

dannyc

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 5, 2005
Messages
134
Reaction score
1
You could only HOPE to get a piece of that AMERICAN PIE... it just doesn't get any better than that.

she sure thinks shes hot stuff.

if i ever bump into this girl, id make sure id tear up her american pie and feed it to my dogs for breakfast. word.
 

DJ_in_making

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 20, 2004
Messages
924
Reaction score
2
Age
38
Location
Big Ole apple
BECAUSE you're not in the kitchen where you belong......
okay, I went a 'lil overboard.....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Top