"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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what do you guys think about the super late night phone calls?

crazymedstudent

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hey,

so this girl I banged a couple weekends ago (she live s in another state). We've been staying in touch every couple of days usually via text. So I called her on saturday. I had prefaced the call with fun flirty texts a couple days earlier so she was expecting the call sometime during the weekend. Went straight to voicemail. We are both in the middle of exams and she knows i'm a night owl as she is.

She texted me around 3am on saturday night/sunday morning "You still up? I'm watching a glorious lecture on sleep apnea! I wish I was sleeping! Even if it came with apnea!"

CMS: I was sleeping before you rudely interrupted my beauty sleep!! jk I can't fall asleep either!"

HER: Well then maybe you should get back up and start studying again slacker. Gosh! It's only 3am! haha"

CMS: I can't read half my texts because I dropped my phone and the LCD screen cracked. boo!!

HER: Who does that?!?!

CMS: The charming young stud you were suppose to call back!!"

HER: haha give me 5 mins to finish this lecture! :)

So she calls 5 minutes later. We have a great conversation talking about random fun stuff and finally 1.5 hours later though I don't really want the conversation to end, I tell her I have to go to bed.

During the conversation I told her about my broken iphone so I told her that she can send me sweet nothings on the left side of the message and talk about nothing on the right side and I wouldn't know she was saying anything.

next day she sent some message saying "I'm really enjoying drinking this HOT, delicious coffee. I love licking the whip cream, naked blah blah...haha"

went back and forth a little keeping it funny and light again and then I told her had to get back to studying.

question is...what do you guys think of the late night phone conversations? I'm not trying to start a LDR with this girl but just trying to keep her thinking about me when she visits nyc again.

My interpretation is that late night phone conversations are strictly reserved for

A)accidents
B) bootycalls
C) boyfriends/girlfriends
D) girl wanting more???

Thoughts??
 

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What do I think about late night phone calls???

uhh whatever floats your boat buddy, thats what I think. If you're night owls it's no different than day time convos.
 

crazymedstudent

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AlexTheGreat said:
E) girl was bored while studying so she texted you to entertain her?
i thought this might be a possibility too. But what's the point of talking to me for over an hour that late night. If it were earlier on in the evening (before 1am-ish) I might put it in the category as well but not so sure.

Girls get bored yes. Girls talk to guys they've ****ed for over an hour with no undertone?

I just wish she was in the same town so I could gauge it better.
 
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