"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Immaculate

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Well, still haven't heard from the girl.

I don't think it's a test anymore. I just don't get girls. We make out, she's all over me, emails me the next day saying she wants to come over again... and then the black hole of no responses....still haven't heard from her lol and it's been over a week... and her profile is still hidden on match???

Just odd.

Anyway, it's all good. I got a date tonight, and I just # closed another girl off match and she's practically begging for me to call.

SO I'm over it.

But I still just don't understand... She could at least have the decency to tell me WHY she cut off all contact after a great date... Anyway, I've come to the conclusion that when you meet a chic off the internet, who knows what she's like.

Maybe she wanted me to bang her that night?

I didn't try to go that far... maybe she's just a slut and wanted sex and since I didn't initiate sex she thought I was a loser or something... whatever... I treated her with respect..not a like a wh0re.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This is officialy the most unadulterated oddness a woman has ever done to me in my lifetime.
 

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Immaculate,

Smells like One-itis to me. You should have plenty of other chicks in the pipeline. Stop focusing so much energy on the potential flake.

Who cares why she did it? Don't sweat it and work on the next one. And the next...

If she contacts you, cool. If not, greener pastures are out there.

Gipper
 

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Glad you're over it.... I hope.

Now keep sarging, and don't get too hung up on this one.
 

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some things in life just don't make sense.But I have noticed not giving a shiyat makes it easier to handle.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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some tough love :)

Immaculate
the chic is a pothead, and I have this hookah pipe I didn't want anymore so I gave it to her...

she took all the parts to it but left the pipe... now I want my sh!t back! I'm gonna email her and tell her to give my sh!t back.


you gave her this old stuff you didn't want no more ?

now you want it back ?

and giving her stuff even if it is old junk is not a good idea so early

you know it was old junk but she may take it the wrong way

Immaculate
Did this girl just want me to f@ck her?

YES

We made out but I didn't initiate f@cking her

you said it there

you failed to act

SHE DROVE AN HOUR THINKING YOU WOULD HAVE SEX WITH HER

you wasted her time

Immaculate
it was the first date.

you have a rule no sex until the third date ?

are you shy ?

Immaculate
Maybe she wanted me to bang her that night?

see you know the answer to the riddle it is a splinter in your mind

Immaculate
I didn't try to go that far...

again you point out what you did wrong that has made her think you are 1. a virgin 2. wasting her time when all she wanted was some luvin'

Immaculate
maybe she's just a slut and wanted sex

wanting sex is not a crime

yeah it is easy but when a woman drives an hour there hour back

the reason is obvious

Immaculate
and since I didn't initiate sex she thought I was a loser or something

maybe she thought your were a virgin ?

but since you wasted her time and she drove 2 hours ( there and back )

in her mind loser might fit

Immaculate
whatever... I treated her with respect..not a like a wh0re.

:crackup:

and that is why you failed

you have alot to learn about women

i am not saying treat them like wh0res

but understand women are sexual beings

they want sex too

Immaculate
This is officialy the most unadulterated oddness a woman has ever done to me in my lifetime.

no. you know the answer. you have said it in many of your posts on this thread.

she wanted sex. in her mind you led her on. your actions led her on.

and you left her feeling unfulfilled with an hour drive home to burn into her mind never to let you waste her time again


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

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I don't think she wanted sex. She's looking for a DADDY for her 7 yr old kid! If a girl wants to SCREW she let's you know. She didn't want it, and if I pushed it I woulda been a big jerk to her.

Is she wanted sex, she would have given me a sign like rubbing my d!ck or SOMETHING.

Anyway, I finally did get an email from her finally which read
"Sorry for taking so long to get back but I've been so bisy I can't see straight. Do you want me to mail that stufff to you or what because I don't thik I'l be driving up there again. I had a great time with you that night but you don't seem like you're the man for me.... no hard feelings???"


LOL... ofcourse I'm not the right man for her...she wamts a DADDY for her baby.

So I repalied
"It's all good... You can just mail that stuff if you
want, I'm in no major hurry...Why would there be hard
feelings? We can just be friends right?"


She replied
Yes I would love to be friends with you. One day maybe we will hang out again and you'll hear from me.
 
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DENIAL is not just a river in Egypt :)

Immaculate there is no shame in what happened

live and learn but don't lie to yourself


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hmm

Hmm in my experience if a girl just wants sex - she has done it before and usually is bold enough to demand it undeniably.

But then again im no expert so I might be wrong.
 

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
DENIAL is not just a river in Egypt :)

Immaculate there is no shame in what happened

live and learn but don't lie to yourself


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Damn right there's no shame... I coulda just saved myself a case of HIV.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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