"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What do you guys look for in a women?

tootlol

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I am pretty sure looks would be the first thing that comes to mind.

There are other things such as personality, being respectful, integrity, caring and etc. I mean think about it, what is more important?

Any guy who is serious about a long-term relationship would probably consider these factors.

I think we can't deny the fact that, Looks can only last for so long. When your partner gets old she will look ugly anyways. So by that time do you leave her or cheat??

Is this why 50% of marriage in America divorce and 80% of the men cheat?

Is look what makes a man want to sleep with a women and personality is what makes the man want to keep her?

I need some advice from DJs. Do I just go for women that are pretty and give no chance to girl that look average?

What is the purpose of this forum? To find help you find someone that can last or someone to get into bed with you?

I am really confused.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Serg897

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The purpose of this forum is to help you attract women. What you choose to do with this (either LTR, or just to have sex) is up to you.

Personally, I think that looks are always important (after all, I have to be sexually attracted to the girl) - but personality, intelligence, and compatibility are all important if you are looking for any sort of relationship, imo.
 

Prodigy746

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Personality is very important to me, as long as the girl is descat looking atleast.

The way i see it is like this. You will spend 4-5 hrs/day on dates with the girl and with her personality. You will spend 30min-1hr/day having sex with her hot body.
 
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