"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What do you guys do post studying?

JohnChops

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So for the past couple of days ive been really into my bio studying, what do you guys do after you study. My main fault is that I never relax, I always get worked up. I feel that if im relaxed that means that I didnt study enough, when in reality I studied the material for 6-8 hours total. But when im all wound up into a tight ball of stress I feel like I reached my max capacity for information and studied enough, thats at the 10+ hour mark.

the funny part? When I study less and feel relaxed all the information flows. When I study more and start to get that ball of stress inside me I feel the information is just choppy.

So what do you guys do to relax before a test, day before a test, or just after studying ?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If I studied a lot and I felt in a great position for the exam, I Would get enough sleep and relax by reading things online and eating a good meal.
 

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Last semester I used to do night gym sessions of cardio only that actually does help. Thanks for the replies guys. Yeah I feel in a pretty good position, its just right after I study I feel as if I forget information but an hour later it'll all fully sink in. I think I'm gonna head home after this class and go for a run to relax.
 
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