"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What do you guys do if a woman wants to make you wait?

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I have had times where a woman would get all hot and heavy for me, but when it comes time for sex, she's suddenly "not ready" or wants to wait. Most men would drop her instantly for this, even I will drop a woman for pulling this. But at the end of the day, she won't put out!

I can't stand women who just talk good about you, then when it's action time, she doesn't follow through.

But what do you guys do when a woman makes you wait? Drop her, put her on the backburner, call her bluff, etc.?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Classic LMR.

Just show indifference,

Get her hot and heavy then go completely cold on her. Flip the lights on on and say that you were having a good time and that she disappointed you. This has to come off completely genuine though. The mindset is to show that it's your reality and if she doesn't comply it shows that your frame is getting off balance. You need you have a strong frame. The only reality you accept should be yours only.
 
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You make HER wait, and then get her so hot and bothered that she practically rapes you right there.
 
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Megaman XIV said:
I have had times where a woman would get all hot and heavy for me, but when it comes time for sex, she's suddenly "not ready" or wants to wait. Most men would drop her instantly for this, even I will drop a woman for pulling this. But at the end of the day, she won't put out!

I can't stand women who just talk good about you, then when it's action time, she doesn't follow through.

But what do you guys do when a woman makes you wait? Drop her, put her on the backburner, call her bluff, etc.?
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I think you are doing some thing wrong , may be you are making her feel ashamed or unconformable when the time of sex comes ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Agree with her, keep touching, then stop
 
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