"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what do you expect ? ..... WTF?

piranha

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There was a situation like that... i met with a girl we had a really nice conv. (not the first time... :] ) and when we were ending our meeting :) (we had to leave but we could be talking ald talking...) a sad something like "so i'll phone tomorrow.. you don't have anything against ? (this question is important in this story.. :p ) " ...and she asked me .. "it depends on what you expect ? ".... ee.. what should tell i such situation ? :> i have to add that that it was in rather joking atmosphere.. and what may it mean ? "i'm interested" or rather opposite ? :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dandrufman

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First off, your post was kinda hard to follow. One thought to a sentence please.

Secondly, yes, she's interested at some level. I dont know if she's interested in you romanticly or as a friend but she's interested.
 

shydude

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DuDE!! is your name sean? Couse my frind has same nick name! Anyways! WDF did you just wrote???Kinda hard to understand, i think she was joking, and you should flirt back.:)
 
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