"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What do you eat for lunch?

MaddXMan

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This is directed mainly toward those who work 8-5. I do, and I only bring snacks to work. For lunches I eat out way too much, which is fattening and expensive.

I need to start bringing my own food to work, but have no idea of what to pack that's lean and healthy (and filling).

What do you guys eat while spending a day on the job?

When you eat out for lunch, fast food options are everywhere - so if you have to eat fast food what do you choose (are 'grilled chicken' sandwiches really less fattening than burgers?)

At my work cafeteria, the company began subsidizing anything purchased from the salad bar, so I can get a big salad for pretty cheap (under $3). So that's an option but their choices are small and I can't eat salad every day!

Thanks for any replies.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Footlong Oven Roasted Chicken Sub from Subway for $5 ~ 630 calories

during the day i eat small snacks like granola bars, strawberries, apples, grapes, and drink green tea
 

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make a quesadilla
tortilla
cheese
chicken
WIN!! bring hotsause.
 

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Most days I bring some brown rice with boiled vegetables and a piece of grilled meat (chicken or fish).
On days that I don't do that I try to get the healthier fast food choices like Wendy's chili or a Subway chicken breast sub.
I watch other people eating BK and Taco Bell and other greasy crap and I laugh.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Espi said:
This weekend, go to Target and buy a cooler...the kind you can drape over your shoulder...

After you've shopped Target, go to the grocery store and stock up on 4-packs of tuna, Birdseye Steamfresh frozen veggies, and Uncle Ben's microwave-ready Whole Grain Brown rice. Buy some 4-pack Myoplex containers.

Drink a Myoplex at 1030ish (42 grams protein)

Eat lunch at noonish: Tuna, veggies, brown rice (about 45 grams protein)

Drink another Myoplex at 300ish (42 grams protein)
Nice, honestly though i'd stick with the powdered variety rather than the RTD style. they kinda get nasty after being in the fridge in the store.

if you only bring snacks i'd recommend jerky.
 

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Generally a 1lb of meat, 1/2lb green vegetables, 70g egg white/whey shake mixed with 100ml double cream and an apple.
 

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simon said:
Generally a 1lb of meat, 1/2lb green vegetables, 70g egg white/whey shake mixed with 100ml double cream and an apple.
You have double cream (excellent) and yet fear egg yolks?
 

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I'd say about 90% of the time, it's leftovers from stuff I cooked for dinner. Leftovers are king. When you utilize all food you buy and cook, that dollar stretches much longer. So basically my lunches are mimics of my dinners. Simple...meat, veggies, beans or brown rice.

I rarely eat out...it's a waste of money and you don't know what you're getting, nutrition-wise, for the most part.

Like Espi said, I have a lunch-bag cooler I use all the time. I pack fruits, nuts and my lunch, and usually one small in between meal. If you eat 5 or 6 times a day there is absolutely no need to get fancy.
 

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MrS said:
You have double cream (excellent) and yet fear egg yolks?
The egg white is powdered and I loads of the stuff so I'm trying to use it up. Breakfast is usually a pint of raw eggs so no, I don't fear the yolk.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Good man!
 

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Thanks I am going to use some of these ideas plus a few of my own.
 

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Which meal is considered lunch when you eat 4-5 times a day? lol
 
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