"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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nan3109

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Hey, lets say you ACCIDENTLY left a message with language about "getting drunk" on a girls answering machine at her house TWICE and her parents heard it? If she calls back pissed and I didnt answer and she said "dont ever call my house back you dumbass", then calls back again 20 minutes later saying "your such a dumbass!" ....

is there anyways to resolve it?
 

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you accidentally left a message on the anserring machine TWICE??

you ARE a dumbass :)
 

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ok but anyways.... im not a "DJ" , my friend matt (the real nan3109) let me use his screename on here cause i didnt have an email to register.

Yeah, so I left ONE message, but the second message was to say to NOT play the first one out loud because then her mom would hear it. Anyways, if the girl was really THAT pissed where she wouldnt want to talk to me anymore (dont call my house anymore she said) why would she call 20 minutes later, I still didnt answer because i was busy working out with matt at the gym and my cell was outside, why would she call again and say with an angry sigh "omg, your such a dumbass..."??
 

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What exactly did the first message say?

And the call from her probably ment don't call her and leave a msg and phuckup like that again.
 

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:rolleyes: Listen, you're dumb a$$ just scored you bonus points. Her parents hate you, and she probibly already got the "I don't want you hanging around that nasty little boy" speach from mommy. Now you're forbidden fruit. Yummy. Lucky Fvck up. Don't sweat it. Say you're 'sorry', joke about it and get her drunk.
 

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Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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you are trying to read something that is not there.

don't question why she called you back.

you need to start considering other targets or let it cool off for a few weeks before u should try to talk to her again.
 

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UPDATE*****

she called me back an hour after the messages and said she cooled off but that she cant hang out tonight because her parents are pissed :-\ which leaves me out of luck....

i work till 9pm on weekdays so im out of luck for seeing her on the weekdays.

the only possible day would have to be sunday or saturday but shes probably working too, soo....???

any help?
 

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She called back again?? She 's prabably into you and it pissed her off even more.
 

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BTW...This is a blessing in disguise .You don't have to call her anymore .Let her call.Use her cell if you really need to get in touch with her.
 

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Yeah, so you guys think i should just wait on her call?

What should i Do if she doesnt call within a week?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Call her cell. Wait 3 days ,girls play too much.She probably see this as an oppurtunity to test you.


Try an E-mailing her once.







*****That is the only time i condone using an e-mail ,when she's THAT pissed.LOL.
 

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You're not listening. If you want to salvage your f*ck up, pay attention. She doesn't even know she wants you more now, but she does. Do you REALLY think she called you 3 times because she doesn't want to talk to you anymore?
 

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Originally posted by THA REALNESS
BTW...This is a blessing in disguise .You don't have to call her anymore .Let her call.Use her cell if you really need to get in touch with her.
LOL, it's so true - I didn't even think about that.


You should thank the man upstairs - it cannot get any better!!!
:)
 
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