What do you do with ex-girfriends if...

[omgwtfm8]

She's moving to a small beach town for the summer where I'm going to be. Chances of running into are going to be 10000% greater. How do i act when I see her? Our last convo was her crying her eyes out and I said, "You're so fvcked up, you'll never change, you need to move away and go to another school, have fun with having no friends, i never want her from you again" and i hung up without getting a response. She called me phone 20 times after i hung up..

the first two months after the relationship she would try to text me acting like she's over me. I ignored them all. And she's gave up trying to reach me.

I know I'm going to run into her, because she's living with one of my friends. How should I react? we ended on very very bad terms. We both were stabbing each others backs, lying, cheating, etc. I haven't heard/seen her in 8 months.

 

[mintxx]

"Our last convo was her crying her eyes out and I said, "You're so fvcked up, you'll never change, you need to move away and go to another school, have fun with having no friends, i never want her from you again" and i hung up without getting a response. She called me phone 20 times after i hung up.."

Sounds like you're the FUĊKED UP one man. Did she sleep with your brother or something? If she does want to speak to you at any stage, you should first apologise and tell her you've grown up. Jesus Christ.

 

[omgwtfm8]

It was a one year relationship that went very well until the summer started. I was her longest relationship, and she couldn't explain her feelings to me when things got serious and we started clashing when it was time for summer.

During the end:
She cheated, we got back together, I cheated, she didn't find out, i broke up with her again, She hooked up with her ex, then two days later came crying back to me and fvcked me. Lied, you know.

I mean, she's a HB9.0, had lots of good times with her, just the end was terrible. We both were immature.

 

[mintxx]

So you should react with civility and mild disdain, and if she starts any sh!t, just point out that she has no right to be bitter when she cheated on you (unless she knows you did the same).

"I cheated, she didn't find out"
"then two days later came crying back to me and [fvcked me]?"
It takes two to tango. You should have taken responsibility for your actions and not perpetuated the emotional drama. Anyway just ignore her and demonstrate that you don't give a sh!t. If she does the same, she may have grown up. Dunno how old she is but most girls think they're living on the O.C. (tv version) and once they do something flaky like that, you cut contact permanently. No insults, no drama, no having the last word. When you can do that, you're getting there.

 

[omgwtfm8]

Wierd thing happend, I just texted her (first attempt of communication for the longest time of 8 months) I said, "May 13th - Happy Birthday" (it's her bday.)

Last year this time we were together, spent her birthday together.

She called me right after the text, I didn't pick up. Then an hour later she texted, "Who is this". She knew who it is. She's playing a game, she had my # memorized when we were together, it hasn't changed... she accidently called it before... what should I do, tell her, "nobody special" or be ignore for more until i run into her in person?

 

[Create Reality]

lol i like that, texting her back with "nobody special".

I think you're in for a c0ckblock hell with this. If she is still pissed AND she's going to be on your hunting grounds, well, you can imagine the worst. My advice: get a "girlfriend" as soon as you can, and make her jealous. Show her you're not the lonely one, and she probably doesn't have alot of business being around you.

 

[backbreaker]

you shouldn't have to ask yourself how do you react.. like she is a woman who was a previous acquaintance. keep it nice and upbeat and short. dont' dwell, keep it light and move on.