"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What do you do when you're in the club and girls aren't receptive?

Chamber36

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How do you rattle their matrix so that they fall off their pedestal?

Why is it that, especially with hot sluts, you have to insult them before you can compliment them?

If I see something I like, I have to pretend NOT to like it if I want her to see me as a non-chump.

Some girls though, are so HOT, that even if Tiger Woods or Charlie Sheen walked in the club, they might not be able to keep their eyes off some of that futuristic ass. So what do these girls think they're accomplishing by turning on guys and rejecting them before they even approach?

Oh btw, I can tell you that if these girls had been in the venue where I work, and I had been working, they woulda loved me. Since I wasn't working they didn't give 2 ****s. And that's a fact.

Sorry for the rant, I just got so drunk last night I couldn't look away from the girls.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Chamber36

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I think the answer might be to use the gentleman angle. Forcing the female to confront her non-ladylike behaviour.

I like to refer to women as ladies, it makes them remember that they have to behave as well.
 

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When you are having a good night, women will look at you, hold eye contact and smile. If they aren't doing that, it's your look.

Time for a detox to get the glow.
 

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I rarely stay more than about two hours at any club or bar. If the fish aren't biting, it's time to venue change or call it a night.

Staying at the club until 2am hoping your dream girl will appear at 1:59, have no b@tch shield, and want to take you home is pure fantasy. All of my successful pulls I met within the first hour or maybe 90 minutes max. Some nights your on fire. Other nights it's just not happening, at least at that venue anyway.

You can't do anything about the b@tchiness. It goes with the territory. If she's attracted to you, she will be pleasant. I haven't found a way to insult my way into the pants of a female that isn't attracted to me. Nor do I try.
 

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Chamber36 said:
I think the answer might be to use the gentleman angle. Forcing the female to confront her non-ladylike behaviour.
I prefer to use this myself, at first I was quite surprised at how quickly she can change her attitude when you've implied that she's not good enough for you.

Chamber36 said:
I like to refer to women as ladies, it makes them remember that they have to behave as well.
If they're behaving I'll call them ladies, if not then I'll address them as if they're little girls. If they like you then they'll try to prove that they're more mature than you're implying.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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