"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what do you do when the girl youre after gets too drunk?

duke104

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What do you do when the girl youre after gets too drunk that she needs someone to take care of her? Not helping her would make me look like an ******* but I dont wanna be that nice guy either...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Iceberg

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What to do with her? Drop her and stop hanging out with embarrassing drunks.

The only chicks I knew who got wasted like that were ones with issues.

But seriously...if she's a nice girl and she just happened to get too drunk on one occasion, then let her friends take care of her, and say goodnight. She's the one who f**ked up. It's not your job to fix her.
 

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duke104 said:
What do you do when the girl youre after gets too drunk that she needs someone to take care of her?
pre-emptively leave the scene (bar/area) before she goes home, so its not your concern...
amoral but good
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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