What do you do when people talk **** about you to the girl your trying to game?

[Brighty]

In high school, I have beef with a few of the 'popular' kids, and the girl I'm aiming to get it is popular. If you've read my other threads, she's interested in me, and I'm attempting to make a move now that I've played hard to get, but I've noticed that today one of the kids that doesn't like me was hanging out with the girl im into and when she called me over and talked to me, he said something to her quietly and laughed and she turned around and laughed and then turned back towards me and continued talking. I may be over exaggerating this entirely, but how do you handle a situation where fags like this attempt to ****block you behind your back? What do you do? What do you say?

Also, thinking ahead, once I do get this girl, theres probably going to be talk to her like 'omg your going out with HIM' or some **** like that, since last year i was an AFC and not good with women at ALL. how do you guys handle it (assuming you've been through the social drama that is high school)

 

[Obsidian]

it might have been a joke about you instead of a blatant insult. If she laughed, then

1) It was just a (mostly harmless) joke
or
2) It was an insult. She laughed because she's a flaky b1tch who isn't highly interested in you. In this case, drop her and find someone better.

Deduce which of those two was the case.

Also, read the Book of Pook.

 

[J-Bone]

you can go and read books but the main thing is not to worry. believe me guy the popular kids dont all stick together in this big tight bond. I swear one minute they love you and everyone else the next everyone is wanting to kill them and then they're loved again. its called bs drama and the best thing to do is go on with your life and get the girl and forget the loser saying something about you. just pretend you don't notice him cause odds are he was just talking to her about class and said something totally AFC. now when he says it out loud to your face you have the right to get upset and knock his teeth down his throat and out his a$$

 

[KontrollerX]

You have to think of the guy trash talking you as a NOBODY a NOTHING and just run your game on that girl the best you can.

If he gets in your face beat the ever loving hell out of him and you'll have the respect of the whole school.

Of course that might get you suspended so another avenue you could take is settling this with him if ever you see him in a place with no witnesses.

 

[J-Bone]

You have to think of the guy trash talking you as a NOBODY a NOTHING and just run your game on that girl the best you can.

If he gets in your face beat the ever loving hell out of him and you'll have the respect of the whole school.

Of course that might get you suspended so another avenue you could take is settling this with him if ever you see him in a place with no witnesses.

get his number and get him fired up on the phone find him drag his ass to a dirt road or to a dark parking lot or anywhere and fvck him up! dont let NOBODY disrespect you. one thing i do (but im alot more muscular than most people so they always back down) is i say what did you say to me and i tell them im gonna slap them like a b**** and almost everytime they say "i bet you wont" and i slap them so hard they have to stumble around for the next hour and normally they'll tear up and try to talk you down from totally tearing them to shreds.

 

[Obsidian]

I don't think there's any need to be a thug about this. A hor isn't really worth fighting for. If this girl is laughing at you then you don't need her. Life's too short to settle for low-interest women.

 

[kdnash82]

I had a situation like this when I was in high school. I wasn't popular, but by no means was I the guy to mess with either.

Anyway, I ended up dating this girl that was "popular". All of her friends were constantly like, "why are you with him?? you should get back with your ex.." so on and so forth. She would always tell me about it. Those same people would in turn come to me all smiles and try to hug me or shake my hand. I confronted them on it and said that if they really had a problem with me, they could discuss it with me instead of to my girl.

I was never fully accepted into their circle and eventually things ended between us.

My advice would be to find someone in your own league. Even if you do get this girl, it's not gonna last because you have the entire school against you. Either that or improve your social circle.