"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What do you do when IOIs do not mean ****

Dhoulmagus

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Most girls initiate conversations, kino, twirl their hair, and giggle at me, but I know they are just teases/overly flirty. It seems like American women are mord flirty than necessary.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dhoulmagus,


The best way to cut through all the bull is to call women out on things EARLY (and "often---if need be).

Whenever you're interested in a woman and you feel like her interest in you or her availability for you is in question----be DIRECT.

Calmly and confidently ask her a no bullshyt, pointblank question and she will be immediately put on the spot. Just look her in the eyes and ask her out (or ask her to come over) while you're giving off a strong sexual vibe.

If you do this, 9 times out of 10 she will either drop her coy act and answer your question in a more definitive way, or she will hem, haw, stutter, or outright "lie" to avoid answering your question.

You will always get better and QUICKER results by boldly asking her to do something with you that's so obviously romantic or sexual that she simply "won't" be able to avoid confirming or denying her romantic or sexual availability.

No matter how she responds to your strong, masculine advances---you'll STILL have your answer. It'll still be a win-win situation because you'll know beyond a shadow of doubt whether you should spend MORE time with her---or if should STOP wasting your time with her altogether.


Soldier on.


V.U.
 

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Victory Unlimited said:
Dhoulmagus,


The best way to cut through all the bull is to call women out on things EARLY (and "often---if need be).

Whenever you're interested in a woman and you feel like her interest in you or her availability for you is in question----be DIRECT.

Calmly and confidently ask her a no bullshyt, pointblank question and she will be immediately put on the spot. Just look her in the eyes and ask her out (or ask her to come over) while you're giving off a strong sexual vibe.

If you do this, 9 times out of 10 she will either drop her coy act and answer your question in a more definitive way, or she will hem, haw, stutter, or outright "lie" to avoid answering your question.

You will always get better and QUICKER results by boldly asking her to do something with you that's so obviously romantic or sexual that she simply "won't" be able to avoid confirming or denying her romantic or sexual availability.

No matter how she responds to your strong, masculine advances---you'll STILL have your answer. It'll still be a win-win situation because you'll know beyond a shadow of doubt whether you should spend MORE time with her---or if should STOP wasting your time with her altogether.


Soldier on.


V.U.
This is usually at party settings, so I usually talk to them for like 4 minutes and their friends drag them away or something.
 
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