"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What do you do when IOIs do not mean ****

Dhoulmagus

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Most girls initiate conversations, kino, twirl their hair, and giggle at me, but I know they are just teases/overly flirty. It seems like American women are mord flirty than necessary.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dhoulmagus,


The best way to cut through all the bull is to call women out on things EARLY (and "often---if need be).

Whenever you're interested in a woman and you feel like her interest in you or her availability for you is in question----be DIRECT.

Calmly and confidently ask her a no bullshyt, pointblank question and she will be immediately put on the spot. Just look her in the eyes and ask her out (or ask her to come over) while you're giving off a strong sexual vibe.

If you do this, 9 times out of 10 she will either drop her coy act and answer your question in a more definitive way, or she will hem, haw, stutter, or outright "lie" to avoid answering your question.

You will always get better and QUICKER results by boldly asking her to do something with you that's so obviously romantic or sexual that she simply "won't" be able to avoid confirming or denying her romantic or sexual availability.

No matter how she responds to your strong, masculine advances---you'll STILL have your answer. It'll still be a win-win situation because you'll know beyond a shadow of doubt whether you should spend MORE time with her---or if should STOP wasting your time with her altogether.


Soldier on.


V.U.
 

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Victory Unlimited said:
Dhoulmagus,


The best way to cut through all the bull is to call women out on things EARLY (and "often---if need be).

Whenever you're interested in a woman and you feel like her interest in you or her availability for you is in question----be DIRECT.

Calmly and confidently ask her a no bullshyt, pointblank question and she will be immediately put on the spot. Just look her in the eyes and ask her out (or ask her to come over) while you're giving off a strong sexual vibe.

If you do this, 9 times out of 10 she will either drop her coy act and answer your question in a more definitive way, or she will hem, haw, stutter, or outright "lie" to avoid answering your question.

You will always get better and QUICKER results by boldly asking her to do something with you that's so obviously romantic or sexual that she simply "won't" be able to avoid confirming or denying her romantic or sexual availability.

No matter how she responds to your strong, masculine advances---you'll STILL have your answer. It'll still be a win-win situation because you'll know beyond a shadow of doubt whether you should spend MORE time with her---or if should STOP wasting your time with her altogether.


Soldier on.


V.U.
This is usually at party settings, so I usually talk to them for like 4 minutes and their friends drag them away or something.
 
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