"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What do you do in your spare time?

Jerry Maguire

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List your 5 favourite hobbies and the 5 things you'd most like to do next year.

I'd like to get some exciting ideas on what to do with the free time I'm going to be getting (going part-time).
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Skel

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Read stuff
masterbate
download porn and masterbate
learn shiznick with my brain
play indoor soccer, baseball, workout, basketball, ping pong, volleyball etc etc
 

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Work out
read
play the piano
go out drinking
waste time on the computer
 

ER!C L!VE

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Location
WORLDW!DE
Favorite hobbies: popping pills, surfing the web, watching movies, working out, clothes shopping.
 

ShizamDaMan

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-Playing guitar
-Reading
-Listening to music, trying to dissect it and learn for myself how to make kick ass tunes
-Working out
-Writing. Lately I've been working on recording all the strange, cool, and hilarious stuff that's happened to me in college. Hopefully it'll turn into a nice novel/novella before I'm out of here.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Paintballguy

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Location
Maryland
-Playing drums with my band
-Playing Paintball
-Working out
-Pickup football with friends
-Video Games
 

mroriginal

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Location
south florida
-skateboard
-go out to the beach
-internet (sosuave)
-drink and smoke weed with friends
-masterbate(not anymore)
-go to south beach with friends and look for girls
-play videogames
-watch tv
-practice guitar

i got kicked out of school and I dont have a job right now so I have all the time in the world right now
 
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-getting the f*ck away from my house
-going to the public library
-visiting guitar shops
-hanging out with a lot friends
-smoking pot
-stealing CDs
-reading
-watching Walker, Texas Ranger
-going to death metal concerts
-zoning out
 

DrMetallica

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EU
Read literature
hike
hang out w/ friends & neighbors
play video games

I don't have much free time anymore so I really appreciate it when I have any. I enjoy all the other stuff people put too.
 

white_hype

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-workout
-sarge
-read/learn (read about all kinds of stuff... real estate, stock market, investing, eco, current events, history, etc)
-hanging out (friends/girls)
-softball
-internet/video games
-cook
-kyak

I want to do these but dont have the means/time right now:
-hangglide
-surf
-garden
-aquarium (want to make my own)
-bjj
-bodybuilding contest
-invest (REI/stock market/gamble)
-bike ride
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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