"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

What do you do in your free time?

Thread starter driveon
Start date Aug 30, 2005

mrRuckus

Master Don Juan

Aug 31, 2005

Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
I just read Slaughterhouse 5 by Vonnegut

I just started reading that book. Don't ruin it!

1. read
2. watch law and order a lot (doot doot!)
3. fcuk my gf silly
4. lift weights on Mon Wed Fri
5. kickball on Mondays
6. softball on Sunday and Thursday nights
7. drink
8. read stupid message boards
9. computer games

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.