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What do you do if you suspect cheating?

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What is the best approach to make when you think your girlfriend is cheating on you?

You dont want her cheating, but at the same time you arent sure if she is or not so you dont want to go overboard with accusations.

In this situation how should you handle it?
 

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If she has an outgoing personality you really need to search yourself to discover how much you can trust her not cheating on you. It's possible that she isn't cheating on you, but is instead acting really social. I suppose that if you want to know for sure you can hire someone to follow her around with a camera inconspicuiously when you arn't with her for a period of time. That way if she isn't cheating on you, even though you suspect it, you can save face in the long run.

But, if you do manage to get some hard evidence you need to expose her by canning the b;tch with the evidence you have collected. That's some crap you definatelly don't want to be putting up with.
 
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Originally posted by naes
What is the best approach to make when you think your girlfriend is cheating on you?

You dont want her cheating, but at the same time you arent sure if she is or not so you dont want to go overboard with accusations.

In this situation how should you handle it?
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Well, are you gonna tell us the story? Details, man, details. Why do you even suspect anything?

Out with it!
 
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im honestly not in this situation, but i want to be prepared.

What i was thinking of is if shes hanging out with other guys and claiming its nothing; situations that are ambiguous.

As i said before:

I wouldnt want to take action and have the girl be innocent
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I wouldnt want to NOT take action and have her be cheating one me

so what should be done in this situation where you are suspicious?
 
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Relationships are mutal and are based mostly on COMMUNICATION. This is just my oppinion. If I were you, I would simply approach her and ask her about it. Tell her you really like her and your suspicious that she may be cheating on you. Tell her you wont put up with that. Don't accuse her of anything tho. Thats a big no no. Lol instead ASK her if she has been cheating, in a nice way. Relationships also rely on trust. Tell her that. After you have this talk with her and say she claims to "not be cheating" and you catch her afterwards dump her. No second chances.
 

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Originally posted by naes
What is the best approach to make when you think your girlfriend is cheating on you?

You dont want her cheating, but at the same time you arent sure if she is or not so you dont want to go overboard with accusations.

In this situation how should you handle it?
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Listen homey if a girl is cheating that makes her a *****. She's the ***** not you, therefore you shouldnt waste any time worrying about it. When you find out your leave, but dont waste energy thinking about it. If for some reason you cant get comfortable with the fact she might be cheating, leave her. You have the right to leave her whenever you feel. But dont waste any life fretting over those things.
 
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