"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what do you do if you have no FRIENDS

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DJnoob

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but want a GF? Lets say, you moved into a new city etc, and you meet this girl who likes you bla bla bla.. then comes the social proof part. How would you handle this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by DJnoob
but want a GF? Lets say, you moved into a new city etc, and you meet this girl who likes you bla bla bla.. then comes the social proof part. How would you handle this?
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Handle it honestly. No one's gonna expect you to have friends if you just moved to a new city.

Additionally, social proof isn't as important as your ability to make friends. Focus on socializing and don't worry about social proof.
 
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