"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What do you do if a girl does not return your call or reply text messages

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Hi this has happen to me twice with two different girls. They do not return your call or reply your text msgs, when u call and they don't pick up or u sent a text message. They see that you called and they know who you are, but what should you do? I let the phone rang for 5 times and then i hung up to not sound needy and i did not get a call back. This is BEFORE you are going out, like getting to know each other. When should you get over her and move on to a next girl if this happens? thanks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Next, they aren't interested.
 
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Dude girls are pathetic. DONT MESSAGE THEM. THEY WILL ONLY USE THIS TO THEIR ADVANTAGE. the reason why they dont message back doesnt have anything to do with whether they like you or not. they might love you. they just want to play that game and have the upper psychological game on you. they want you to think about them, hence by not returning your message they want to make you think that you did something wrong. DONT CHANGE YOUR BEHAVIOUR based on this. be consistant. when you come in physical contact with these girls , simply dominate them and dont even worry about those msn convos. its best not to talk to girls u really like online.
my man, dont fail the test, they are testing you to see if u give a **** or not. if u act differently ( aka nicer or weirder etc) after they dont respond you for a while, they will pick up that you are weak and they totally will lose attraction.
put them down with humour as much as you can and dominate them and act as the prize no matter what they do. you gotta be consistant. girls are not good creatures man, trust me, every woman is a ***** except your mom. its bull**** how they say women care about **** and stuff, i personally dont buy into that. they might be nice to themselves or their girlfriends or whatever, but to guys they are different. so have the mentality that everygirl is a ***** and you must run the bible on each of them, no exception. thats right, THEY ARE ALL THE SAME, despite what you may think. even the nicest or shyest girl will put u down and screw ou if you give her that opportunity.

peace

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i agree with khash....I'm no expert but I've had some bvtch behaviour from some girls initially, even though I did change my behaviour slightly, I still ended up getting with them in the end.

Like he said I think it's better to be persistent, be C+F, etc. I had just discovered the sosuave community and went through an arsehole phase, so I was pissed off and let her know I was pissed off. Not really an alpha man or mature thing to do, looking back on it now, but it was better then being some soft c0ck.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A lot of you are jumping to the NEXT button before evaluating that every situation is different. One girl I was seeing had everything going wonderfully. Two awesome dates together (ahem), then I made the call for the third date (probably a little too soon after the second) and she seemed to have low IL about seeing me the following night. We made plans however to hook up the next night although they seemed wishy-washy at best. I decided that I would blow off the entire evening and do something else instead, rather then go on some wishy-washy plans so I didn't call her or see her the night we were supposed to go out.

The next day I casually swung by her house and dropped off a rose in front of her door and took off. My phone was ringing off the hook 3 hours later.
 
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Happy_Camper said:
Hi this has happen to me twice with two different girls. They do not return your call or reply your text msgs, when u call and they don't pick up or u sent a text message. They see that you called and they know who you are, but what should you do? I let the phone rang for 5 times and then i hung up to not sound needy and i did not get a call back. This is BEFORE you are going out, like getting to know each other. When should you get over her and move on to a next girl if this happens? thanks.
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How did you get these girls interested enough to get their numbers? Aside from nexting the girls, you gotta figure out why you couldn't attract them enough in the first place to NOT call you back. That's how I'd look at it.
 
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While i can see the benefit in nexting a girl, shouldn't it be worth considering some alternative ways around this? There has to be atleast one method that could be used to get them to reply back, to get them a little interested again.
 
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