"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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what do you do for a new gf's bday?

garruk

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just wondering.

lets say you guys have been dating like less than a month.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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garruk said:
just wondering.

lets say you guys have been dating like less than a month.
Gave her a card, some half-decent headphones, And we went to the aquarium. Her girlfriends made the dinner-going out plans that night.
 

Mistic

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Seriously, what is with all these fvckin posts with everyone asking someone to wipe there a$$ for them. All you pvssies need to man up and MAKE A DECISION FOR YOURSELF.

You guys sound like a bunch of feminized b!tches.
 

BananaSmile

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buy her eatable underwear eeyyyyyy :D
or if your not that far in, chocolate lipstick (idk if they sell that thou)
 
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