"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What do you do for a living?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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seagull

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I may as well be a robot. I work in a dead end government job. :)
 

insomniac

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Electrical engineer. Great money, but you couldn't ask for a more pathetic social environment. You know how people on here say don't date at work? I've never been in a position to even think about it (maybe one or two somewhat attractive women, but none I'd get involved with). The guys aren't exactly wingman material either.
 
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