"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What do you do for a living?

spider_007

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Docs said:
I'm probably reading this wrong...but you design mold...like...bad icky mold? Let alone..invest?

Educate me :D
Pastic injection mould (mold) designer (or CAD draftsmen as some would call it). Making blueprints for plastic injection molds that are used to make plastic parts (airbag covers, back covers, steering wheels etc.....)

while doing that, i have excess to the internet and few hours of free time a day (blame the current economy, and slow machine shop) so i reserch and trade stocks (i'm a bigginer)......
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The things I will not do for a living are as follows:

Buy things
Sell things
Hire and fire people as the primary activity
Comfort and/or advise people with problems
Guard, defend, or watch over anything or anyone
Clean up after anyone but myself
Anything involving wearing a suit or working in an office environment
Any occupation that requires me to be anything other than myself
Any occupation that involves the manipulation of anything living
Dealing with the general public

And yes there are jobs that dont involve any of these things.
I knew what I wanted to do along time ago and Ive been doing it for about the last 6 years. And I make adult sized money.
 

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Semi-retired disc jockey and music/club promoter, now concentrating on illustration and art-related gubbins.

Here's my site

http://www.danavenell.com

Discount for SoSuave members of course.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nighthawk said:
Semi-retired disc jockey and music/club promoter, now concentrating on illustration and art-related gubbins.

Here's my site

http://www.danavenell.com

Discount for SoSuave members of course.
Hey, that's some really nice artwork. I draw some myself...you're really good.

I just wanted to mention...on the Flash navigation you have in the upper left, you need to enlarge the "Hit" states for the buttons. In other words, when you rollover them, at the moment it only "hits" right on the text. It's just a common mistake, I used to do this too...just make a nice box around each button and drop it into the "Hit" frame...it makes it much easier for people to select the buttons.

I was just joking about the morgue thing...I'm actually a webdesigner/student.

Good luck with your works!
 
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