"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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what do you do after she calls

aix237

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a general question. What do you do when a girl calls you that you want? I held my urges back and did not call her. We do have a past but thats a whole different story. anyways she called me finally and i kind of was a d*ck. Cause last time we talked like 2 weeks ago we got in an agurment. I answered the phone saying what do you want? then i kind of laughed. anyways the call was cool everything seemed fine. I said you should come down this weekened she said dont nkow has a lot of school work to do. should i call her this weekened and say come down or just wait and see if she calls me. which is the best route to take to get her IL high righ tnow? call or no call?
 

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Espi said:
I would not call...in fact, before she hung up, I woulda said, "OK, well have a nice weekend."
Not much of a help. Bumping this up to see a better response. Never been in this situation, but to get decent thoughts of advice, it's very important to explain your past with this woman.
 
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