"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheLadiesMan

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I dunno what those 5 traits are but, I have a lot of gfs who like me for those 5 reasons.

For the record, I met my ex-wife, while playing in a local metal band. We were married for 12 years. Granted she was a girl from around the way, and I was in a band at the time.... Yes, it's funny and I do see the irony in it.

...and yes, I am a rock star. :up:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TheLadiesMan said:
For the record, I met my ex-wife, while playing in a local metal band. We were married for 12 years. Granted she was a girl from around the way, and I was in a band at the time.... Yes, it's funny and I do see the irony in it.

...and yes, I am a rock star. :up:
Being in a band DEFINITELY helps you get attractive women, I know it did for me, and I know others who it works wonders for. It's the whole status thing. Ladiesman, seeing you're a Metaller(or maybe a former Metaller?), I want your opinion on something, to see if it aligns with mine: Would you say the majority of hot metal chicks only hook up with guys in bands? Cause that's what it seems like. Maybe I'm wrong, but what's your opinion on that? I don't even try to hook up with hot metal or goth chicks anymore, cause it seems they're not interested unless you're in a band or are a DJ(not Don Juan DJ), or a promoter in the scene.
 
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lol ok so what about the woman who are not into metal rock music which is more than 50%.... but in essence its still correct as the end of the day what matters the most to girls is the power u bring to the table in any shape or form.......the question is how is this accomplished
 
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