What do y'all make of this?

[vagabonding]

There's this girl I'm very interested in (pretty and also nerdy, both things I like). We've a class together and for while I've been walking with her to her car talking to her and what not, and until yesterday she never mentioned her boyfriend. So, I mean, she knows I'm interested in her.

Anyway, yesterday she gave me her number without my overtly asking (I was all ''hey we should hang out'') and told me ''sure'' and to text/call her sometime. Right before that she told me she had a boyfriend, kind of with a hint of regret or maybe that's me being hopeful.

We texted earlier (I sent her a text and she immediately texted me back) and I think it went okay. I'm good at making her laugh at least, I know that.

Do I stand much of a chance of getting past the extremely annoying problem of that other guy's existence? What should I do? Stick it out in the friendzone hoping they break up? :/

 

[Trump]

I would just say "That's too bad you have a bf, we could have had some real fun together." And then disappear, unless you want to be her girlfriend.

 

[vagabonding]

I'm cool with being her friend. I mean, I really dig her even aside from the whole wanting to have sex with her thing.

 

[Big Nuts]

I'm cool with being her friend. I mean, I really dig her even aside from the whole wanting to have sex with her thing.

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No you don't...always be banging. Most girls suck as friends...they're shallow and gossipy. Go for poon quick or next her and find another boob on the hooter tree.

I'm 45 and would rather hang around my buddies and talk sports, politics and tits any day. I love women, but I don't want them around very long.

There is nothing more humiliating from a woman than being put in the friend zone, never had it happen, but had one buddy spoon with a chick for about 3 months.....never even kissed her.....ya, it was that bad.....!!!!

Him = 3 months!
Me = 3 minutes! (Unless she drops the laundry)

 

[apprenticedj]

Make your intention explicitly clear with this girl, I like what Trump said.

Most of all: DO NOT GET IN THE FRIENDZONE!!! NEVER!!!

I've never personally been in the friendzone but I thought I was twice, even that was painful I can assure you. So once again, either bang her or next her. You don't need a female friend that you find attractive. You might think you can handle it, that the experience will be different for you but it won't. You'll hold her hand as she goes through boyfriend drama all the while you'll be dying inside. Just don't do it amigo.

 

[vagabonding]

so, uh, today she was markedly different. last night we texted and i thought it went well, light and breezy. but today she was very withdrawn and even mentioned hanging out with her boyfriend.

it sucks, but i got the hint.

 

[apprenticedj]

Ah...so is the nature of women. Up and down, all over the place. Don't think to much about her behavior because it is IMPOSSIBLE to figure out. She could've been experiencing some PMS, maybe she was fighting with her BF, school has her stressed, work has her stressed etc. The point is you just gotta keep doing what you're doing, keep being that guy in her class that she can't quite figure out. Be a mystery. Flirt with other classmates, bang other chicks. BELIEVE ME, she'll be watching. You got this big guy!

 

[Bokanovsky]

She told you that she has a boyfriend (regardless of whether it's actually true) to keep things platonic. In other words, she wants you as her orbiter.

 

[HyperAnalyze]

Don't waste time. See if she's interested in banging. Set up a date and escalate.