She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Couldn't have said it better myself.macmaji said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Depends on the hypnosis text. While you should start with something alone the lines of " You are becoming (more) confident " so your brain/mentality gets used to it over a longer period of time in which you go over the hypnosis/affirmations time and time again.Atom Smasher said:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
corrector said:
Good point. As a very handsome man I find myself taking the long route just to look in a mirror. If you like what you see in it you won't have problems. Most guys look in the mirror and see imperfections. I don't. Well, I do have a few small facial scars. That just plays into my mysterious side. My rugged side.ladyzman said:It's the looks that are getting him laid. Lets face it, the better looking you are, the easier it is to get tail. The only thing the affirmations are doing for your cousin is validating that they actually work when affirmations don't do ****. I've done affirmations and they weren't what was getting me laid. My looks, my luck that day, whatever **** she had going on in her life that made her interested in me, and the fact I have the balls to approach her and ask her out is what gets me laid. In all honesty, if I was better looking, I'd get sooo much more tail. But I'm OK so I do OK
